Now, why do you think you have hideous luck and a jinx against you? I'm sure that you don't. Anyway, it sounds like he likes you and that you have a good chance with him. Just keep being how you were when you met him, he liked that it seems.
Thanks. Well, I say hideous luck because it's been almost 15 years since my last proper boyfriend. Since then whenever I have liked a guy they've either been in a relationship, lived too far away and not seemed interested, or something like that. That said, I'm really picky and there aren't many guys I'm interested in. But when I do start to like one I usually find out he's in a relationship or he gets a girlfriend shortly afterwards. Although of course am shy so often don't make it really obvious I like the guy. The last guy I really liked, that I met in Jan, we met up 3 times and then he decided he was still in love with his ex, who was a glamour model!
I've started a new thread about the guy I'm talking about in this thread though - see the 'good person comment' thread! I'm talking about the same guy as the one who gave me this peck on the cheek.
Opinion on 'good person' comment wanted « Result #2 Yesterday at 10:49pm »
The guy I like who has admitted to me in the past that he's quite reserved (not half as shy as me though, I don't think) recently has had work related problems. I don't want to get too into all the details, but I've helped promote him and his products over the last year or two. Haven't met him much - just a couple of times for an hour or so, to work on stuff. Anyway, I emailed him the other day and he told me some bad news regarding the company/product. He then thanked me for my support over the last couple of years and added 'You really are a good person in an industry of... not so good people'.
I'm wondering if this is just a comment as a friend/colleague - or if he may think more of me than just a friend.
Do you think if a guy tells a girl she's a really good person he is interested in her, or is he just talking as a friend/colleague and nothing more? Guys - if you told a girl she was a good person what would you mean?
I know it's probably hard to say. I guess I'm just wishfully thinking!
I'd like to meet up with him and get to know him more, but it's hard for me to make a move because I'm worried he does only see me in a 'business' kind of way and then I'd look a fool. I wish he would ask me out but so far he hasn't.
« Last Edit: Yesterday at 10:52pm by brightestdark »
Re: Do opposites really attract? « Result #3 Yesterday at 10:39pm »
Re. do opposites attract? I knew a guy who was really outgoing, super-chatty and friendly to everyone - and he would flirt with me (shy). He WAS attracted to me. He was actually in a relationship so nothing really happened - but he definitely flirted a hell of a lot and did seem really into me. Also because he was so chatty to me I talked more to him. If someone spends time to get to know me then I become less shy. So yeah, I think opposites can attract.
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Re: wha's going on inside this guy's mind?! help « Result #5 on Nov 26, 2009, 5:45pm »
It sounds like the way I act around a girl I really like but am to scared to tell her or even hint and I keep losing them so to speak. So I would say he does and doesn't know how to tell you hint to you maybe you could say you you would like more than friendship and if not then you would be happy to remain friends.
I have never been with anyone so I'm reporting this from the outside and very very shy, but thats just my opnion.
Personally, I think when people do things like this it's because they don't have God in their life.
The problem with that is; Gertrude Baniszewski did believe in God, she went to church every week. She would be at church hearing about god even as Sylvia lay in her basement, tortured beyond belief.
I don't know, she may have been seeking God, but it's also possible she was using churchgoing as a cover for her real nature. I just can't believe she truly had God in her life. She obviously had no moral compass.
Re: Ways to Overcome Shyness « Result #10 on Nov 25, 2009, 2:26pm »
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