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Post by mn on Oct 19, 2013 11:22:05 GMT -5
Hi all!
I started this thread to find out what are the top problems of shy guys. I was once a very shy guy (I couldn't talk with women at all and was very awkward) but fortunately after several years of hard work I overcame my problems. Now I would like to help people like previous me who are afraid of talking with women or afraid of social life in general. What are your top problems? Would you be interested if I created a sort of a guide for people like you?
Please share with me your problems and I'll do my best to help you out.
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Post by Astroruss on Oct 22, 2013 23:49:27 GMT -5
Hi all! I started this thread to find out what are the top problems of shy guys. I was once a very shy guy (I couldn't talk with women at all and was very awkward) but fortunately after several years of hard work I overcame my problems. Now I would like to help people like previous me who are afraid of talking with women or afraid of social life in general. What are your top problems? Would you be interested if I created a sort of a guide for people like you? Please share with me your problems and I'll do my best to help you out. Well you already guessed my biggest problem. Talking to women.
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Post by putter65 on Oct 28, 2013 10:35:10 GMT -5
women don't like me
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Post by francis on Nov 29, 2013 2:54:29 GMT -5
Hi all! I started this thread to find out what are the top problems of shy guys. I was once a very shy guy (I couldn't talk with women at all and was very awkward) but fortunately after several years of hard work I overcame my problems. Now I would like to help people like previous me who are afraid of talking with women or afraid of social life in general. What are your top problems? Would you be interested if I created a sort of a guide for people like you? Please share with me your problems and I'll do my best to help you out. Well, my biggest problem is that i get tense and blank-minded, sometimes hands shaking and sweating, when i was talking to strangers. i can't make up complete and logic sentences and i think people don't like talking to me anymore after they see me like this. the second biggest probelm is that when i was walking alone in the street. i always feel people there are watching me, judging me, which makes me really uncomfortable. i could even feel their eyes staring at me, curious to poke at my face. that's why i tend to avoid as many social interactions as i possibly can. but my friends told me i need to grow a thick face, and don't be afraid of those judging eyes (actually no one is judging you and they are tending to their own business) anyway, i am still struggling. i know deep down that going out a lot does much help but i 'm frightened at the idea of going out alone.
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Post by logan546 on Dec 10, 2013 19:06:36 GMT -5
Just being able to be a man and going to talk to women. At my age that is a serious problem. I do not know how to start a conversation with anyone.
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Post by Outcast on Dec 13, 2013 1:02:48 GMT -5
Not really my top problem but just some of my experiences.
When you're too timid, some girls would think you're gay or some people would just take advantage.
When people realize you don't have a girlfriend, some of them make fun of you.
Being too soft spoken, some people can't hear you well and ask you to repeat what you say.
Being too quiet make you unapproachable.
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Post by peterbrads85 on Jan 20, 2014 17:43:01 GMT -5
not having great looks, sounding boring, scared to talk to girls. Worry i`ll be made fun off when near a girl, not one for smiling and being a negative person all round really.
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Post by anothershy1 on Feb 2, 2014 16:05:07 GMT -5
being called freak show.
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