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Post by Astroruss on Apr 3, 2014 10:01:42 GMT -5
Yes indeed, on the shuttle bus from the city parking lot I talked to one of the cute, friendly young women that works here with me. I learned her name, too, and now she knows my name!  And after my last screwup with a cute librarian I was careful to check out her fingers and make sure there were no bands of committment on any of them. There were not, thankfully.   |
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Post by Outcast on Apr 3, 2014 11:04:13 GMT -5
That's pretty awesome news. Good for you. Hope you can become good friends for starters?  |
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Post by Astroruss on Apr 3, 2014 12:58:41 GMT -5
That's pretty awesome news. Good for you. Hope you can become good friends for starters? Yes, I think we can become friends. Her cubicle isn't too far from mine. I may drop her a note sometime, or some candy from a mysterious source. Women love that, a good mysterious secret admirer person. |
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Post by morrowrd on Apr 13, 2014 6:54:58 GMT -5
hmmmm, I am going to suggest that maybe you don't begin leaving gifts and notes, at this point. You know her name, big deal. Let me tell you something, if a girl likes you for more than just an acquaintance, she will let you know. There will be flirting, and other types of signals sent to let you know she's interested. I see what you're doing as a set up for failure, and running the risk of making yourself look creepy and weird. "Hey, this guy at work won't leave me alone after I said hi to him." (you get the picture)
What I am curious about is that you say you met her on the bus, yet her cubical isn't far from yours. Is this a workplace shuttle? Do you work together in the same office? Was thinking that a strategy to raise the odds of you two meeting (by chance) in a break room, water cooler or coffee machine, ANYTHING can be used as a resource. You just need one or two times and if there are no signals, leave her alone.
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Post by ura on Apr 13, 2014 9:57:43 GMT -5
hmmmm, I am going to suggest that maybe you don't begin leaving gifts and notes, at this point. You know her name, big deal. Let me tell you something, if a girl likes you for more than just an acquaintance, she will let you know. There will be flirting, and other types of signals sent to let you know she's interested. I see what you're doing as a set up for failure, and running the risk of making yourself look creepy and weird. "Hey, this guy at work won't leave me alone after I said hi to him." (you get the picture) What I am curious about is that you say you met her on the bus, yet her cubical isn't far from yours. Is this a workplace shuttle? Do you work together in the same office? Was thinking that a strategy to raise the odds of you two meeting (by chance) in a break room, water cooler or coffee machine, ANYTHING can be used as a resource. You just need one or two times and if there are no signals, leave her alone. I agree with this, don't start buying her too gifts too quickly, you're not really on talking terms with her. |
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Post by Astroruss on May 5, 2014 10:10:12 GMT -5
I'm making progress! This morning I ran into her at the elevator today. She flashed me a big wide smile and greeted me. I did likewise, and made a few funny jokes with her while we waited for the elevator. As we got on, I tried to stand a bit closer to her than usual, hoping to subtley bridge the elevator space gap. Last week, i helped her move many boxes of books downstairs to the sorting room, Like the gentleman that I am, I carried the larger ones myself and even held the door open for her several times. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jun 6, 2014 2:24:44 GMT -5
congrats on making a good connection. hope it's going well.
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Post by mappy on Jul 26, 2014 15:48:29 GMT -5
Astroruss you are one smooth sonavabitch |
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