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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 12, 2015 6:53:53 GMT -5
do you ever have issues with being around lying hypocrites who pretend to be nice but they're really hateful and evil on the inside? i hate it!!!  |
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Post by ura on Dec 13, 2015 19:17:32 GMT -5
You mean sly people. Yeah I hate those people, sometimes people who are assholes to your face are easier to deal with, at least those people are honest. |
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Post by silence on Dec 14, 2015 15:21:29 GMT -5
yeah that's pretty much everyday in my office!
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Post by Outcast on Dec 15, 2015 2:03:31 GMT -5
Yeah something like that happened to me as well at work.
It was a client, who usually talked all buddy buddy with me. But one day i pissed him off and he blurted out something offensive to me. Being the sensitive person i am, i was shocked and really took it to heart. It has never been the same since.
The first few days after that he went all buddy buddy with me once again. Eh, but i couldn't really make myself reciprocate/return the favor anymore. To me, he has become a hypocrite person. One who i can never trust again. In the end, he gave up trying to be buddy buddy with me once again. I don't know, i know i should be forgiving and all. But i find it hard to trust that guy again.
Sometimes, I think it's all part of being social though. Trying to act cheerful, and friendly to everyone you meet. Being tactful. Maybe it's one of those social etiquettes everyone needs to know or observe when interacting/socializing with people. I mean you just can't express openly to people what you feel. Especially if it's a negative feeling like anger, contempt, hate, disgust, etc.. For me, i'm guilty of doing this as well. It's not like i like everyone i meet at work. There are a few that do get to my nerves. But i have to be respectful to those persons too. When these bottled feelings accumulate though, its hard to keep all of these emotions in. And some of it will just show in the end.
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Post by ura on Dec 17, 2015 18:52:41 GMT -5
I started a new job recently and feel quite excluded by the people I work with so I don't really trust any of them at all. :/
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 29, 2015 4:25:35 GMT -5
nice to know i'm not the only one encountering and dealing with lying hypocrites. at least i know it's not me. whew! thanks for sharing, guys.  |
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