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Post by spfreely on Apr 13, 2016 16:55:09 GMT -5
Well everybody I'm back and I thought a response to a thread like this would be a fine way to resume imparting my advice. First of all, you may feel you've been very unlucky on the relationship front, but quite the contrary. I wish I could have had someone like me, I always felt in my past relationships it was in a ratio of 6:4 in love, fondness or however you would describe it. Anyway, back on topic, don't get down about relationships at the current point in your life. You're at University, working towards qualifications that will guarantee you a better future ahead of you. The other side of the coin with relationships is that they can prove a huge distraction from your long-term goals and ambitions. You're 19 years old with your whole life ahead of you and plenty of years ahead of you during which I have no doubt you will fall in love. You have absolutely no need to feel anxious about this, so please relax okay  . |
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Post by marle on Apr 13, 2016 20:05:48 GMT -5
... does this mean I am lesbian?
I really am confused. When I see her i'm like OMG, then I have to remind myself that she is actually a girl.
Is her being female a barrier in your attraction (do you have to look past it), or is it part of the appeal? I don't think all crushes have to be sexual in nature. Can you imagine being sexually intimate with her or any woman? Not having ever dated a guy is certainly not a reason by itself. There are plenty of reasons not to have dated by that age. |
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Post by nani on Apr 15, 2016 9:50:57 GMT -5
Well everybody I'm back and I thought a response to a thread like this would be a fine way to resume imparting my advice. First of all, you may feel you've been very unlucky on the relationship front, but quite the contrary. I wish I could have had someone like me, I always felt in my past relationships it was in a ratio of 6:4 in love, fondness or however you would describe it. Anyway, back on topic, don't get down about relationships at the current point in your life. You're at University, working towards qualifications that will guarantee you a better future ahead of you. The other side of the coin with relationships is that they can prove a huge distraction from your long-term goals and ambitions. You're 19 years old with your whole life ahead of you and plenty of years ahead of you during which I have no doubt you will fall in love. You have absolutely no need to feel anxious about this, so please relax okay . wow thank you so much for the advice. You are right I should just focus on my studies. I hope you find someone that makes the ratio 5:5 hahaha |
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