Joined some dating sites Nov 27, 2018 21:39:05 GMT -5
Post by Strawberry on Nov 27, 2018 21:39:05 GMT -5
I would say...you were NOT in the wrong. My advice would be (if you didn't, not sure how it went)...but lead with a compliment: Ex: "Really cute photo. I prefer seeing your eyes, though, as they're so pretty." Then again, don't know if someone would take that wrong too. May be best to leave it strictly as a compliment and leave it at that when just getting to know someone.
Yeah, when it started to feel like I was getting along with the geeky girl, I felt uncomfortable chatting with the other girls so I kinda stopped doing so. Especially, when some of them blew up or got mad at me for something I have said. Like, with one girl who barely talked to me and just gave short answers. I was trying to be friendly when I saw a new picture of hers in her profile. So I complimented her that she looked nice. Then she referred me to a more current picture of her. But there she was wearing shades. So I commented that it would have been nice if she had shown her eyes. Without the shades. I told her she had nice eyes from the other picture. Apparently, it was a mistake on my part. She blew up at me, and said why I was minding her pictures so much. Like I should mind my own business. And that I got a BIG problem. And that if I wanted to see her face, that I should go see her Facebook. That...was the last straw. Couldn’t take how scary and angry she was. Just decided to delete the convo and unmatched with her. Gosh. Am I in the wrong. Maybe I shouldn’t have commented on her picture.
THAT said...her reaction is obviously abnormal, and she is definitely the one with the big problem if something so small bothered her so much. It's clear, at least to me, that you were trying to compliment her. Good riddance to that one. Dodged a bullet there, in my opinion.