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Post by carol on Apr 19, 2003 12:01:46 GMT -5
I and my friends are going away to spain next week. It's my first time going away without my parents. There are 5 of us going. Everybody else is going to go topless most of the time. I agreed with them to do the same to be a part of the gang but I am really shy and am dreading it. I have a nice enough figure but no self confidence. Has anybody any advice on what I should do?
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Post by Twice-Shy on Apr 19, 2003 13:52:50 GMT -5
Hello Carol. Welcome to the SHY United boards. I'm very jealous of you going away next week! Do you think you could fit me into your case. I think it's far easier being a shy boy going away to the sun. All we have to do is whip off our teeshirt and get a tan. Girls seem to be a lot more self conscious and rightly so - even unshy girls. I would say that you should do whatever you feel comfortable with. Its your holoday so you should ebjoy it to the full. Just becasue your frinds are aall going topless doesn't mean you have to as well.
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Post by moogle on Apr 19, 2003 14:05:57 GMT -5
i agree with shane. it's your body, you don't have to show any part that you don't want to. i know i wouldn't be comfortable doing that.
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Post by NewOrleansLady on Apr 20, 2003 1:58:38 GMT -5
Don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with. Hopefully your friends will understand. Chances are somebody else will be to modest to go topless as well but, if you are the only one than it's no big deal. Maybe once you get there and see that it's not all super models on the beach, you will be more confident to do it as well.
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Post by unionjackattack86 on Apr 20, 2003 12:50:17 GMT -5
I agree with the others, its up to you, don't feel obliged to just because others are doing it.
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