Bullied for being shy
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Post by Bullied for being shy on Apr 9, 2003 11:29:54 GMT -5
hello. i get bullied terribly in school because I am shy. It started out a few years ago with verbal bullying. people constantly putting me down. making me feel worthless. they would laugh at me. Since then its moved on to physical bullying as well. I gang of my class mates wait for me after school and kick and push me. I have not told anybody about it. I have no friends. i have missed so much schhol this term. I make excusses to my mom and dad. What can I do. I feel hopeless.
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Post by unionjackattack86 on Apr 9, 2003 12:17:54 GMT -5
Hello, I think the best thing for you to do is to report the bullies to either your teachers or parents and they will take it from there, you might say the bullies will bully you more if you do that but i'm pretty sure the teachers will look after you.
If it still continues then stand up for yourself, you may as well, after all you have nothing to loose, if your going to go for any at all, go for the main one, the one they all look up to. If they see you attacking the ringleader, their going to be more wary of you.
I wouldn't really advise the violent approach, but this is just in case you report them and it still continues.
Fight dirty too, if need be, after all you are outnumbered so don't hesitate in low blows. Punch them straight in the nose, it should make their eyes water momentarily blinding them, then give them a good hard kick in the midsection, when they drop to the floor, kick them some more. You could also try screaming really loud at the same time, it will scare them whilst at the same time, confuse them.
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Post by NewOrleansLady on Apr 11, 2003 20:39:20 GMT -5
Well, I definitly think that you should tell somebody. Even if you ask that person not to do anything they will at least look out for you and break things up when they notice anything happening. Is there a teacher, or somebody in charge, that you can talk to about this? At least try to explain this to your parents.
I've said this before on this site, once you are out of school life is so much better.
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Post by unionjackattack86 on Apr 12, 2003 12:29:45 GMT -5
I agree with NewOrleansLady, life is much better once you leave school. I didn't have any serious issues at school such as bullying or anything but I didn't feel as though I fitted in with most people, so towards they end I use to spend my dinner times alone.
People are alot more maturer outside of school and you have the freedom to do what you want to do, i'm glad i've left.
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