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Post by madiocre on Dec 28, 2008 8:45:52 GMT -5
yeah i think you r quite rigfht there .. all i know is i want attention from a guy and this guy seems cool i click woth him we have chemistry etc....and im scared ill get hurt i guess
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Dec 28, 2008 8:48:59 GMT -5
yeah i think you r quite rigfht there .. all i know is i want attention from a guy and this guy seems cool i click woth him we have chemistry etc....and im scared ill get hurt i guess How will you get hurt?
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Post by madiocre on Dec 28, 2008 8:53:11 GMT -5
if i gfet attached needlessly when i know hes going back in a month or possibly longer
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Post by madiocre on Dec 28, 2008 8:54:57 GMT -5
imean i liked the idea of a "summer fling" kinda thing but i dont know now ...
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Dec 28, 2008 8:56:10 GMT -5
if i gfet attached needlessly when i know hes going back in a month or possibly longer If it helps any, boys your age are just looking to get laid. If getting physical with him is going to make you get attached, then don't do it.
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Post by madiocre on Dec 28, 2008 9:01:39 GMT -5
thing is being physical doesnt effect me that way its talking etc that gets me attached and i feel it happening already and i barely know him like when he didnt call back i felt hurt yet i didnt feel hurt about being dumped by sms by the other guy ....it doesnt make sense.
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Post by nelo on Dec 28, 2008 9:54:21 GMT -5
I'm just a little younger than you, and I'm looking for more than shallow sex. I wouldn't mind shallow sex, though.
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Post by madiocre on Dec 28, 2008 10:09:18 GMT -5
umm im not sure what to make of that comment.....
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Post by rukryM on Dec 29, 2008 16:03:44 GMT -5
I wouldn't mind shallow sex, though. Who would mind shagging?
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Post by madiocre on Dec 29, 2008 19:18:56 GMT -5
some people do i guess...
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Post by madiocre on Dec 29, 2008 19:21:44 GMT -5
o woot im a "senior member" now!!!
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Post by madiocre on Jan 2, 2009 6:50:27 GMT -5
i feel quite down at the moment .. i know it will pass but while its here it hurts. i hate new years eve !! its a time to party and have fun with friends i thought this year would be different from the others . most years i end up moping at home because no one invites me to anythinng and i havnt the gore to organise it myself . last year was the onlt nye i had done anything ....it was cos i had a bf and his friend was having a dress up party in with an awesome view of sydney harbour fireworks . i figured since this year generally i have paried and had fun a whole lot more something would come up....nothing eventuated really i got so anxious in the lead up . The canadian guy i m ibterested in had said for me to give a call on the night if i was in the city and we would meet up ...and my frienf steph and dani were gonna do something so i figured hey well go to the city somewhere and il call ryan itll all be cool .....but got closer and steph was given a shift for 9 oclock and dani's sister organise some party or something im not sure she didnt really get back to me . so steph and i were going to go in but later then her bf got sick.... being superstitious she felt the need to be at his side at midnight so after many umms and arhhs that fell through.....canadian guy texted me nye midday to go in cos he was at the opera house...but it was a kinda thing i felt i needed to bring a friend ..and there was no one to bring so i ended up with family ...regrettable i drank way too much cos i was upset about not being with friends . and i ended making a classic arse of myself basically . i was ultra hung over new years day I went to the beach with an old school friend and felt a bit better (beach is a good hangover cure funnily enough....sunburn sux though) then that night my friend who just returned from a "hippy trip" came to give me cookies and i ended up going to her house and spent oday with her fishing ....whilst waiting by the phone(i guess the good thing is that i have a mobile and ie waiting by the phone can involve going out) new years day canadian and i were texting a bit i texted him and asked" so when are we meeting up again?" he hasnt texted back and i feel really stupid and upset about it and i hate that i feel this way i shouldnt feel this way its nothing and i have no right people have much worse issues to deal withthis is nothing yet i feel really hurt and a deep sadness...its sooo pathetic. as the tittle of this sugessts.....oh my i really am a loser!!!
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Post by rukryM on Jan 2, 2009 6:56:55 GMT -5
Ending up with your family always sucks. Did the same thing except I didn't drink. Oh well. Anyway, it's the canuck's call now, just wait until you hear something from him and try not to get upset^^.
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Post by madiocre on Jan 6, 2009 18:09:12 GMT -5
yeah they say christmas is for family and new years eve is for friends so spending nye with family felt like failing ... canuck never replied but hey im kinda over it now all is well .
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Post by rukryM on Jan 6, 2009 18:21:46 GMT -5
Having spent all 23 New Year's Events with my family I can assure you it's not a custom you want to stick to. Why don't you rather go for an Aussie instead of a guy from another continent?
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