It has become apparent that some forum members need a reminder that the purpose of this site is to provide a positive and supportive environment for shy people. This includes shy people of both sexes. While it's understandable that someone who is smarting from a bad experience might have a desire to spew hatred towards the opposite sex, this isn't the place for it. It just escalates until it poisons the atmosphere, starts attracting posters with an axe to grind, and positive gains are overshadowed by rancor.
Some alternate suggestions are keeping a journal, a web blog, or going to a site that welcomes that type of thing if you really must. I have removed recent posts and threads of an inflammatory and abusive nature, and ask that all forum members refrain from this type of thing here in future. If you notice that one of your posts or threads has recently been removed, this is probably the reason. In that case, it might be a good idea to review the TOS in the Moderator forum. Thank you for your cooperation.
Please, people. Grow up and learn to move past your bad experiences. Discuss them all you want here, but don't blame third parties here at this website for things that happened in the past and have nothing to do with them.
With regard to problems with the opposite sex: Remember, those that cause you pain probably do not frequent websites such as these.
Last Edit: Jan 21, 2009 21:13:42 GMT -5 by Astroruss
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