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Post by nigella on May 24, 2009 4:07:09 GMT -5
What ever happened to decency what ever happened to love? Theses days it seems easy for a young man to have 20 sexual partners in a year. So where are all the nice people my town dover seems a commoners town.Yet i go 20 miles inland and the people of canterbury seems abit more open minded. I was at work the other day and my mate joked to this girl that shes seeing a certain somone as she was complaining about a lack of sex life recently it seems people expect it these days.Although when i laughed at her she told me to shut up in a shy way Lol.
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Post by madiocre on May 24, 2009 7:20:12 GMT -5
decency? i think having sex with people still makes you a decent person .... passing unfair judgements isn't.
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Post by nigella on May 24, 2009 8:28:10 GMT -5
I dont mean it like that but certain i know used to have girlfreinds and play about.To me thats why sexual deceases are on the increase.
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Post by Tal on May 24, 2009 13:12:40 GMT -5
I'd rather have 20 sexual partners in a year than the big fat zero I've had every year of my life so far, but each to their own. I presume you mean sexual diseases...well isn't that down to choice of partner and lack of condoms etc as much as it is down to how many sexual partners you have. Sure if you sleep with total strangers you're perhaps taking risks and maybe not getting the most from sex emotionally, but I see nothing wrong with having sex regularly outside of relationships. I do however agree Canterbury is a much more sophisticated place than Dover (or indeed Chatham where I live).
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Post by Naptaq on May 24, 2009 15:38:52 GMT -5
Sure if you sleep with total strangers you're perhaps taking risks Perhaps that's an understatement..
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Post by nigella on May 24, 2009 16:11:03 GMT -5
Id be happy with a beautiful girl who was my girl and who i could have sex with when i wanted it.
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Post by madiocre on May 25, 2009 5:26:51 GMT -5
lol my brain hurts that sounds likea contradiction i don't understand
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Post by nigella on May 25, 2009 6:05:12 GMT -5
No erm its the people who have a nice girlfreind yet go out and have sex with strangers behind there backs seems to be more occuring thing.
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Post by madiocre on May 26, 2009 5:01:36 GMT -5
oh i see im sorry i misunderstood. ok yeah i don't understand that why people who are commited go and have sex with others. And it can't be a lve of sex.
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Post by MrNice on May 27, 2009 0:06:53 GMT -5
nothing happened for some reason you decided to only look for examples of things you find indecent
that is just plain ridiculous I'd like to live in that world
and speaking of canterbury, I seem to remember from medieval literature in college that people were quite open to sex in those days
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Post by nigella on May 27, 2009 4:08:04 GMT -5
Yeah relationship sex only.As i work in canterbury and live dover and u live in new york i would know more about these towns than u.
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Post by nigella on May 27, 2009 4:09:35 GMT -5
I think that u will find that people who like wining and dining are not into casual sex.
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Post by madiocre on May 27, 2009 7:21:24 GMT -5
i like wining and dining and if i'm not in a relatonship i likek casual sex too .
you'll find most people like eating and most people like sex .
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Post by nigella on May 27, 2009 12:08:42 GMT -5
Well i dont agree cos im on this dating site and the girls on there that like wining and dining on their profiles are not into no strings. And my sister hates casual sex and is a wining and dining girl.
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Post by nigella on May 27, 2009 12:10:55 GMT -5
I also struggle to see how some people are shy on here if they can have casual sex.I believe my confidence would become that high if i was having sex that easily i wouldnt need to be on here so much.
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