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Post by nigella on May 31, 2009 2:26:10 GMT -5
No maybe once wouldnt hurt.But i was trying to debate how badly people treat each others partners in this day and age.
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Post by madiocre on Jun 3, 2009 5:51:04 GMT -5
you seem to lump the act of cheating and having a one night stand into the same thing ...that's not right. if someone agrees that they are mutual and only with that person then goes with another that is dead wrong . but having casual sex isn't. there is nothing wrong with it if it is honest.
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Post by madiocre on Jun 3, 2009 5:54:31 GMT -5
also shyness presents in different ways. You can't say based on what people post whether you think people are shy or not. Although many people who are shyhave trouble finding partners because of it it doesnt mean it never ever happens for every single shy person we are all at different stages.
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Post by nigella on Jun 3, 2009 8:11:00 GMT -5
Well if asked people who i know and they see it the way i do if your shy then how can u have the courage to to have no strings sexual encounters.Thats having spoken to people who are alot older than u or me and have alot more life experience.Maybe your very pretty then so the blokes chase u.But no way can a shy man have numerous sexual encounters as its a man who has to make the first move usually.
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Post by MrNice on Jun 3, 2009 9:09:52 GMT -5
people treat each other the same in any day and age
things are not so simple for example I have noticed that shy men, at least the ones that complain about how they are not able to find a partner and in general about how they are cheated by life by being nice etc etc tend to be much more picky about women's looks then other men, but if they weren't so picky they would be able to get sex much more readily
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Post by nigella on Jun 3, 2009 13:21:31 GMT -5
According to my elders they dont people used to be much more loyal. Some men that are shy cannot take rejection so its not because they are being picky. Also if u suffer with social anxiety then it makes u struggle in crowded places.
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Post by madiocre on Jun 6, 2009 6:05:58 GMT -5
things always seem much more simple and better in the old days. It the nature f every generation to say it was better. even i who am only 22 say how things were better when iwas a kid. People were not more loyal. people having been having affairs since ... well since the begining of time.
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Post by nigella on Jun 6, 2009 6:18:19 GMT -5
Yeah but it occurs much more than it did.
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Post by madiocre on Jun 6, 2009 6:27:36 GMT -5
nope i don't think so it is a flaw in human nature. I think now a days people aren't as good at hiding it and that in the old days people went on even when it was.
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Post by nigella on Jun 6, 2009 11:58:14 GMT -5
I dont agree if u love someone it wont happen thats the opinon of my sister.
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Post by madiocre on Jun 9, 2009 6:02:54 GMT -5
i think things get a bit more complicated then that. people can love someone and cheat on them. people are complicated nothing under the sun is black and white...especially love.
dating was different then people dated various people at once then got married to one person there was no such thing really as boyfirend and girlfirend . and once they were married they stayed married even when they hated each other abused one another and cheated on one another.because the female had to stay she couldnt go get work and the men needed the woman to look after the house and cook etc. These days when people cheat there are explosions and things t to end and people tend to move on . It may feel like more people are cheating but they arent its about the same.
although there probably wasnt as much casual sex back then. people waited til they got married then cheated on their partners anyway .
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Post by nigella on Jun 9, 2009 6:31:54 GMT -5
Well i know for a fact that none of my family have ever cheated there more old fashioned in their beliefs thats why you have marriage vows.And from knowing some of my mums freinds they would think it dirty to have affairs.
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Post by madiocre on Jun 9, 2009 7:25:37 GMT -5
a lot of people from this generation find it a sin/dirty/imoral/wrong to cheat aswell .
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Post by nigella on Jun 9, 2009 8:34:16 GMT -5
Okay ill accept your opinon but i still think im right Lol
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Post by nigella on Jun 14, 2009 3:57:27 GMT -5
A question for madiorce would u date an older virgin guy as myself at least get to know him?
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