gaia
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Post by gaia on Aug 23, 2009 17:58:45 GMT -5
Anyway, that's pretty silly. 15-year-olds can have sex, but I wouldn't consider them to be 'men.' Nor do I consider 'men' who go around having careless sex, making babies, then ditching them and not taking on the responsibility that is theirs to be 'adults.' Haha, that's actually a really good point.
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Post by 1one1 on Aug 23, 2009 21:32:39 GMT -5
This is exactly what I believe, which makes some(or a lot)of the people around me very ignorant. Such childish ignorance. These are the people people look up to.
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Post by casanova on Aug 24, 2009 2:01:11 GMT -5
Im pretty convinced it wasnt in my head.I saw this tv doc about older male virgins called virgin school and this guy didnt feel a man until he had been with a woman.So yeah i dont think it matters but some people do seem to.
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Post by casanova on Aug 26, 2009 2:23:10 GMT -5
Erm well im just showing that certain peoples views can make someone like myself who suffers with severe anxiety can feel pressured to do something.
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Post by 1one1 on Aug 27, 2009 10:05:04 GMT -5
That is understandable, but all your life you may be pressured to do a lot of things. People tried to pressure me into having unknown sex, drinking, smoking, chewing tabacco, etc. You just need to go with what may work for you. We are all different. As long as it does not cause you to self distruct in some way, find what works for you.
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Post by gals on Feb 16, 2011 8:11:25 GMT -5
Well, I am a virgin and I am above 25. We are a rare specie. LOL. And hell, am not the type to be pressured into doing something just because of peer pressure or whatever.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 16, 2011 10:51:33 GMT -5
i think male virgins are sexy. i'd like to have one of my own. but...oh that's right...i'm a good girl so i can't.
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Post by Sigh on Feb 16, 2011 12:11:06 GMT -5
i think male virgins are sexy. i'd like to have one of my own. This
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Post by gals on Feb 21, 2011 2:57:56 GMT -5
i think male virgins are sexy. i'd like to have one of my own. but...oh that's right...i'm a good girl so i can't. Hey sweetpea, If you're a good girl, then what makes you think you can't have a virgin man? Would you care to elaborate?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 21, 2011 3:14:57 GMT -5
i think male virgins are sexy. i'd like to have one of my own. but...oh that's right...i'm a good girl so i can't. Hey sweetpea, If you're a good girl, then what makes you think you can't have a virgin man? Would you care to elaborate? well, i can if i marry him first!
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Post by gals on Feb 25, 2011 7:57:34 GMT -5
Hey sweetpea, If you're a good girl, then what makes you think you can't have a virgin man? Would you care to elaborate? well, i can if i marry him first! Boy, oh boy! Sure, why not Sweetpea. So, you already set your sights on this lucky guy? Good luck to both of you. I think it's exciting to marry a virgin male, don't you think? exciting! ;D
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 25, 2011 21:54:37 GMT -5
well, i can if i marry him first! Boy, oh boy! Sure, why not Sweetpea. So, you already set your sights on this lucky guy? Good luck to both of you. I think it's exciting to marry a virgin male, don't you think? exciting! ;D well, let's put it this way. i wouldn't mind marrying a virgin, but neither would i mind marrying a non-virgin. what's important to me is having a loving husband who is faithful. any further discussion would have to be moved to the adult section.
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Post by kesele on Apr 11, 2011 3:48:16 GMT -5
for a man i guess it's a big deal. not so much for a woman, but people do act like it's weird if you are over 21 and still a virgin. i think the "accepted" age is in the teens. i was 26 when i first had sex with a long term boyfriend. for women, i think it's overrated to "save yourself." i think if you take precautions and you feel right with this significant other, go for it and have sex.
BUT, on the other hand, i think it's overrated for guys to "get laid" once they are 15 or 16. it's not just a mechanical act to get over with. you gotta have some finesse, some passion, and some caring. it's not worth throwing away a great first experience just because you feel pressured to do so.
it's not AVERAGE to wait until the 20s to have sex, but it's definitely not unheard of.
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Post by casanova2 on Jun 14, 2011 11:31:29 GMT -5
How about thirty i didnt lose mine until i was thirty and im a man.I lost it at a massage parlour then i got a girlfriend afterwards.
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Post by ghost1990 on Jul 5, 2011 6:01:34 GMT -5
female virgins over 25: i would say rare male virgins over 25: more than most people would believe
But that's only my opinion.^^
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