Post by peterseter3 on Jun 23, 2011 11:13:33 GMT -5
Ohhh i see. i thought people in bus stops always talk to people. Especially the hispanics talk so much with strangers of their same ethnicity. I always see that. and they become instant frieidns . And i've also seen white guys and just all kinds of americans talking to strangers .
Join a club? I dont like clubs cause everyone starts getting into little groups cause they're already the same way. For example all the talkatives start talking with themselves and they get in this little group. Then it's not easy to approach that anymore.
Hobby? I have a hobby. You mean hobby in a group? Welel isn't that the same as Joining a club? And since i'm always the only one who's quiet, they all start getting in groups and cliques and then it's you against 5.. that's not easy anymore.
Volunteering. yea. i'm trying to find, i just got rejected from one place because I'm not talkative. You would think they accept anyone to volunteer but they didn't accept me. They never called me back.
If I went around talking to women at bus stops trying to make friends a few things would happen. A few would be rude and tell me to get lost. Some would talk just to be polite (like most people do), if I asked for email address, contact info, most would invent something up just to get rid of me. I would get a reputation as a nucisence and a stalker, creep, weirdo. Most people just want to left alone. They don't want to get harrassed. I've seen it loads of times.
Volunteering is your best bet, don't be dishearted by one set back.