Post by sweetnlow on Feb 19, 2011 13:02:52 GMT -5
I think a rant would feel good right about now ;D. As shy people, I am sure most of you can relate to the issue of feeling powerless and not being able to stand up for yourself.
I wish I had a backbone! I can live with the fact that I am socially awkward, but I just can't forgive myself for letting people walk all over me. I want to be able to do something about it but I feel so scared and powerless, it makes me hate myself. Growing up, I can remember people calling me every name in the book while I just sat there and excepted their insults. I would try in vain to avoid these people by taking the long way around the school and avoiding the bathrooms if possible. It was the only thing I could do. I lived my life in fear. As an advanced student, I liked learning in school but hated breaks and times where I had to face people. Panic attacks were a way of life back then and I became severely depressed.
As an adult, things have got worse and I feel powerless like I did as a child. We live in a low income neighbourhood where bullies and horrible parents are the norm. We stick out here as a good family and people have told us we really don't deserve to live here. Its hopefully a matter of time before we can better ourselves and move away. We have a bully who lives a few doors down. She is a horrible person with eight children. She is raising the children to be little heathens, for lack of a better word. The children have no morals, don't even go to school and they bully my children to the point that they don't want to go outside. This woman has swore and yelled at my children and she has made our lives miserable. I have been so angry that I just cried but the thought of confronting her scares me and makes me feel sick. I just feel powerless against her. My children don't stand up for themselves as well. The cycle is continuing and it tears me up inside. I just wish I could tell her what I really though of her. Trust me, it wouldn't be pretty. I have never hated anyone more than I hate this woman. I have A LOT of pent up anger inside from a really hard life and abuses. Maybe its best that I am this way. I think I could probably do something bad that I would regret
I wish I had a backbone! I can live with the fact that I am socially awkward, but I just can't forgive myself for letting people walk all over me. I want to be able to do something about it but I feel so scared and powerless, it makes me hate myself. Growing up, I can remember people calling me every name in the book while I just sat there and excepted their insults. I would try in vain to avoid these people by taking the long way around the school and avoiding the bathrooms if possible. It was the only thing I could do. I lived my life in fear. As an advanced student, I liked learning in school but hated breaks and times where I had to face people. Panic attacks were a way of life back then and I became severely depressed.
As an adult, things have got worse and I feel powerless like I did as a child. We live in a low income neighbourhood where bullies and horrible parents are the norm. We stick out here as a good family and people have told us we really don't deserve to live here. Its hopefully a matter of time before we can better ourselves and move away. We have a bully who lives a few doors down. She is a horrible person with eight children. She is raising the children to be little heathens, for lack of a better word. The children have no morals, don't even go to school and they bully my children to the point that they don't want to go outside. This woman has swore and yelled at my children and she has made our lives miserable. I have been so angry that I just cried but the thought of confronting her scares me and makes me feel sick. I just feel powerless against her. My children don't stand up for themselves as well. The cycle is continuing and it tears me up inside. I just wish I could tell her what I really though of her. Trust me, it wouldn't be pretty. I have never hated anyone more than I hate this woman. I have A LOT of pent up anger inside from a really hard life and abuses. Maybe its best that I am this way. I think I could probably do something bad that I would regret