Post by Shan-Chan on Mar 31, 2011 22:29:57 GMT -5
This sucks because I really don't feel like typing, but I need help with this (also I don't see my therapist untill a few weeks). So, hi everyone, I am hopping that you can lend me some strength that I need to be able to do something without freaking out on the inside. Like something that I can tell myself, repeat in my head during a situation like the one I am about to tell you.
Well the thing is....I usually feel very different or undesirable when in a get together or gathering. I felt the most anxious I ever felt in my whole life a few years ago when trying out for enrollment and seminars at a college (-_- Jesus Christ). But on a positive note, here I am again trying to do something worthwhile! But not for myself, for animals. I am going to be volunteering at a humane society. I already went to the orientation and it amazed me how people that didn't even know each other could brighten up and start talking and carrying on conversations and just jump out there like RAH!! XP I offered smiles and I would say things, but me I am more quiet until I feel that someone actually wants to talk to me or whatnot.
It's just weird. I am going to have to go to a lot of more group gatherings because they are going to be teaching us how to deal with the animals and what to do. I mean I totally (not a valley girl) want to do it, but I always feel in my heart that I'm so different. For one I look a lot younger then my age. I don't mind this but I feel people don't take me seriously. I talk friendly like when need be and I do not have an intimidating demeanor, but I feel that people look at me overlook me or they either think I'm icky cause I am not behaving like them or not. I really hate that feeling. Though I am more concerned being 'cool' or 'popular', more about being an outcast when having to deal with strangers.
I do know that I am different from most 23 year olds. I am playful and cute in mannerisms versus independent and outgoing. Yeah, so that about it. I really would like to hear similar situations or feelings or advice from whoever can offer it ^^ (<<<see cute! UGH!!)
Well the thing is....I usually feel very different or undesirable when in a get together or gathering. I felt the most anxious I ever felt in my whole life a few years ago when trying out for enrollment and seminars at a college (-_- Jesus Christ). But on a positive note, here I am again trying to do something worthwhile! But not for myself, for animals. I am going to be volunteering at a humane society. I already went to the orientation and it amazed me how people that didn't even know each other could brighten up and start talking and carrying on conversations and just jump out there like RAH!! XP I offered smiles and I would say things, but me I am more quiet until I feel that someone actually wants to talk to me or whatnot.
It's just weird. I am going to have to go to a lot of more group gatherings because they are going to be teaching us how to deal with the animals and what to do. I mean I totally (not a valley girl) want to do it, but I always feel in my heart that I'm so different. For one I look a lot younger then my age. I don't mind this but I feel people don't take me seriously. I talk friendly like when need be and I do not have an intimidating demeanor, but I feel that people look at me overlook me or they either think I'm icky cause I am not behaving like them or not. I really hate that feeling. Though I am more concerned being 'cool' or 'popular', more about being an outcast when having to deal with strangers.
I do know that I am different from most 23 year olds. I am playful and cute in mannerisms versus independent and outgoing. Yeah, so that about it. I really would like to hear similar situations or feelings or advice from whoever can offer it ^^ (<<<see cute! UGH!!)