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[peterseter3]

Hey so my parents are immigrants and they want to give me their rental properties to take care of and then they have properties in south america too.

i really don't want to deal with any of that. What can i do?
i tell them i don't want, and that i want to rent a room and live there. I don't care if i don't have properties. But they get angry and control me.

But 1) I don't like travel 2)i'm not a leader type nor i want to be and to be a manger/owner etc you have to have leadership 3) i'm not a good speaker and i don't speak spanish and i have speech impediment.

What can i do?

BTW I'm in my 30s but i live with them now. but they will be retiring soon and moving to their country.

[Sweet Pea]

May 7, 2011 10:02:46 GMT -5 peterseter3 said:

Hey so my parents are immigrants and they want to give me their rental properties to take care of and then they have properties in south america too.

i really don't want to deal with any of that. What can i do?
i tell them i don't want, and that i want to rent a room and live there. I don't care if i don't have properties. But they get angry and control me.

But 1) I don't like travel 2)i'm not a leader type nor i want to be and to be a manger/owner etc you have to have leadership 3) i'm not a good speaker and i don't speak spanish and i have speech impediment.

What can i do?

BTW I'm in my 30s but i live with them now. but they will be retiring soon and moving to their country.

before they leave, get them to help you hire a property manager to handle your rentals for you. you're in an enviable position financially. don't blow it. life isn't any easier for someone with your issues if you're poor.

[peterseter3]

Ok so i'm confused. Some people say MOVE out on your own and get independence. But Sweet Pea, you say stay with parents.

I feel controlled with parents they don't let me do anything and i'm like in a cage.

[Sweet Pea]

May 7, 2011 21:56:43 GMT -5 peterseter3 said:

Ok so i'm confused. Some people say MOVE out on your own and get independence. But Sweet Pea, you say stay with parents.

I feel controlled with parents they don't let me do anything and i'm like in a cage.

independence is great if you're ready for it. from what you're saying here, you may not be. you have to be able to survive. your parents are offering you a way to support yourself. all i'm suggesting is that you ask them to help you hire a property manager before they leave so you'll be able to support yourself.