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Post by peterseter3 on Jun 10, 2011 22:00:49 GMT -5
She's foreign so she's here just temporary. like she came just for like 1 week and she's leaving next week.
She's coming back later to study in america but then she's not from america and she will then go back after she finishes studying here, and will eventually make her life in her country.
Yesterday we had a date, dinnner..activities, talking and then we even gave eachother some stuff. and she said she will come back and that we should go out again.
She's so nice and i like her but there's no point. I'm just living in a dream because it's just impossible.
But anyways, i guess even it's temporary i should make it a great memory in my life, right?
It's funny how i've never had any dates in my life until magically this girl showed up in my life.
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Post by mike86 on Jun 19, 2011 17:00:02 GMT -5
why is it impossible? plenty of people have had relationships with people from other countries and one of them has moved to the other person's country. My cousin is married to a Russian Woman, she moved to England to be with him. My oldest brother use to be married to a Mongolian woman and currently lives in Mongolia. My next door neighbour is from the Congo and moved to England because she married an English man.
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Post by peterseter3 on Jun 19, 2011 18:13:15 GMT -5
Well but i'm shy and not a LEADER type/entrepenur with a great job. I am not even employed and i don't even have my own house. i live with my parents. I'm even scared of traveling.
Yeah some guys move to other countries or they bring their girls to their own country but I don't have that ability. I'm just a shy guy in poverty
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Post by mike86 on Jun 19, 2011 19:32:06 GMT -5
Well but i'm shy and not a LEADER type/entrepenur with a great job. I am not even employed and i don't even have my own house. i live with my parents. I'm even scared of traveling. Yeah some guys move to other countries or they bring their girls to their own country but I don't have that ability. I'm just a shy guy in poverty none of those things matter, there are guys out there who aren't leaders/don't have great jobs/homeless even and they have girlfriends. what scares you about travelling? I'm going to post a thread in the self-help section soon about my own experiences on overcoming shyness and fear. I hope it will help you and others. You're identifying yourself as a shy guy living in poverty. You need to change your identity/self-image. Your past does not equal your future. If you were born with no legs, there's not a lot you can do about that except get artificial limbs. You have grown up learning how to be shy, you can also learn how to be confident too. Think of the brain as a computer, it's the most powerful computer in the world but it will only run on the software that we put in to it. If we keep putting in software that says we are shy and have no confidence and is always negative, that's the output we will get. 'If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.' If we start thinking more positively though and start inserting inspiring and empowering software, we will start experiencing results. The change won't happen overnight but every 1000 mile journey begins with a first step. |
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Post by missklew on Jun 20, 2011 4:40:44 GMT -5
why is it impossible? plenty of people have had relationships with people from other countries and one of them has moved to the other person's country. My cousin is married to a Russian Woman, she moved to England to be with him. My oldest brother use to be married to a Mongolian woman and currently lives in Mongolia. My next door neighbour is from the Congo and moved to England because she married an English man. Just wondering if these woman were poor? What happened to your brother's marriage with the mongolian woman? |
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Post by mike86 on Jun 20, 2011 9:07:09 GMT -5
why is it impossible? plenty of people have had relationships with people from other countries and one of them has moved to the other person's country. My cousin is married to a Russian Woman, she moved to England to be with him. My oldest brother use to be married to a Mongolian woman and currently lives in Mongolia. My next door neighbour is from the Congo and moved to England because she married an English man. Just wondering if these woman were poor? What happened to your brother's marriage with the mongolian woman? I don't know if my cousins wife was poor but my neighbour from the Congo is from a wealthy family. They got divorced because it wasn't working out. |
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Post by ghost1990 on Jul 5, 2011 10:53:16 GMT -5
From experience: An LDR (long distance relationship) only works for a shorter time... the longer you are seperated, the more the feelings will vanish, or the pleasure of love will turn into the pain of missing.
If you aren't going to follow her into her country or if you can't convince her to stay at yours, then maybe it really is better to just stay friends.
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