Post by miles2go on Aug 11, 2011 2:09:24 GMT -5
For me to clearly express the way I feel right now I have to first explain why the feeling is special.
I lost a girl that I loved very tragically about three years ago. Before I lost her I was young and very immature, taking for granted most of the things I had especially her. I just assumed that things would stay the same and never expected them to change so quickly, I was going to marry her. Losing her was the worst thing that ever happened to me and I carried her everywhere I went. I had bouts with depression and anxiety, and still do sometimes. I became very closed off and people who never knew me before she passed cannot stay friends with me for long cause they eventually start feeling like I am not letting them in and I lose them. I haven't dated or been with anyone since her because I still carry the guilt of the event and cause I haven't connected with anyone since her.
Enter Allyson. I met her about a month ago volunteering at a hospital and we connected immediately. She is so smart and has such a goofy sense of humor that I cannot get enough of, and the most beautiful blue eyes that I have ever seen. Every time I see her smile I feel as though I just might give her anything she wants and that feeling terrifies me. She actually makes me feel young again cause I spend most of my time thinking about her and I can finally after all this time say that there is a girl that I really like.
The problem is that she is now getting to the point that she feels really comfortable with me and has told me so much about herself that she is starting to realize that she doesn't know who i really am. I haven't told her too much about myself and she is starting to feel cheated and that I really don't care about her. She thinks that me not opening up to her by now is an indictment on how I feel about her and I feel like she might be slipping away. Couple this situation with the fact that my closest friends don't like her because they don't think she is anything like the girl I lost and that she isn't my type makes me second guess everything. I ultimately doubt it will work in the long run anyway because she is 28yrs old and I am 21. If anyone could offer some advice or comments I am all ears.
If you read all the way to the end thanks for sticking with it and sorry for the long winded post.
I lost a girl that I loved very tragically about three years ago. Before I lost her I was young and very immature, taking for granted most of the things I had especially her. I just assumed that things would stay the same and never expected them to change so quickly, I was going to marry her. Losing her was the worst thing that ever happened to me and I carried her everywhere I went. I had bouts with depression and anxiety, and still do sometimes. I became very closed off and people who never knew me before she passed cannot stay friends with me for long cause they eventually start feeling like I am not letting them in and I lose them. I haven't dated or been with anyone since her because I still carry the guilt of the event and cause I haven't connected with anyone since her.
Enter Allyson. I met her about a month ago volunteering at a hospital and we connected immediately. She is so smart and has such a goofy sense of humor that I cannot get enough of, and the most beautiful blue eyes that I have ever seen. Every time I see her smile I feel as though I just might give her anything she wants and that feeling terrifies me. She actually makes me feel young again cause I spend most of my time thinking about her and I can finally after all this time say that there is a girl that I really like.
The problem is that she is now getting to the point that she feels really comfortable with me and has told me so much about herself that she is starting to realize that she doesn't know who i really am. I haven't told her too much about myself and she is starting to feel cheated and that I really don't care about her. She thinks that me not opening up to her by now is an indictment on how I feel about her and I feel like she might be slipping away. Couple this situation with the fact that my closest friends don't like her because they don't think she is anything like the girl I lost and that she isn't my type makes me second guess everything. I ultimately doubt it will work in the long run anyway because she is 28yrs old and I am 21. If anyone could offer some advice or comments I am all ears.
If you read all the way to the end thanks for sticking with it and sorry for the long winded post.