i think one of my problems when it comes to men is that i am never interested in guys unless they have a certain 'look'. it's not that this is the ONLY thing i'm interested in. far from it. but if they don't have a certain 'look'. i'm not even remotely interested. it has to do mostly with the eyes. a certain vulnerable look that i find irresistible. i don't know how else to describe it. anyone else have this?
I think I know what your talking about. I do find that sweet, vulnerable look appealing. Perhaps its has something to do with feeling like people who have that 'look' are the opposite of all the haughty, self-involved men and women out there. Its definitely a hard to define quality. I think you just know it when you see it.
Although.... I've only been romantically involved with two men in my life, and I wouldn't say that either of them have that 'look' about them. So for me, its not a mandatory thing, (though not being stuck up is)
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It would make sense that most everyone has a "that look" that they prefer in the opposite gender even if they can't explain why that is...
To be honest, I've never really thought about which specific look on a guy wins my attention the most (aside from the long hair thing ;D). It was more a vibe than a look, per se. I think I've always kind of been drawn to the more unconventional types of handsome. The individuals that don't look like everybody else. And maybe have some crooked teeth. ;D
I'm sure they do lots of studies on these kinds of things too.
Mine's more of a feeling. For some (cosmic? ) reason, I'm just drawn/attracted to certain people. I don't think I have a certain "type." I just have to have a good feeling about someone. I like to think I'm good judge of character anyway.
I don't feel like I get a really strong vibe too often.
I've actually been surprised by some of the people I've been attracted to, though. Several years ago, for example, there was this one guy in college who was in a couple of my classes. I didn't know it at first, but later found out he had tattoos....I typically HATE tatoos, but there was still something about him that I was drawn to.
Yes and no, I do notice guys with a certain type of look but all of the boyfriends I've had I've gone out with based on personality. At the same time though, I wouldn't go out with someone I wasn't physically attracted to. I think you just know if you're attracted to someone or not.