*****OKsz UpDatE***** on me and new onlineBF

[shyofmyboyfriend22]

ok talked him yesterday we talked on mic i talked back becouse heard from in a few days so i missed him so talked on the mic but not at first when he first got back online from being off for a few days hes like r u going to talk the mic i didint what to say he knew i was shy and he said basiclly the shyness has to stop and we have to take it to the next level uh oh next level means wha? some tell me i.m still shy here gulp whats he meannn??!! i think he means non sexual tho since we online n not person but whats he meannnnnnnn ahhhhhhhhhhh

[Astroruss]

Well, if I understand you right, this is not quite an ultimatum. But it could be. Tread lightly.

He needs to respect your shyness; it's who and what you are, but it can be changed and dealt with gradually. Step by step. So maybe this is how you shuld approach him. He obviously wants more from you, but exactly what more?

Just give him some more, whatever it is. This is how couples get to know one another. Slowly, they discover things and attributes and secrets and whatever about themselves too.

This is how couples get close. Your relationship cannot be static. But exactly what more does he want, what next level? Going in public? More talking? Kissing? Sex?