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Post by casanova2 on Feb 19, 2012 12:47:56 GMT -5
I don't think i was smothering her when i was with her.I know she said she didn't think i was fit enough mentally to have a relationship.The problem she didn't understand was alot of my depression and anxiety is due to wanting a loving relationship and loneliness.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 19, 2012 12:49:58 GMT -5
I was struggling to think of things to talk to her about at the end which was making me miserable.Which led to her breaking up with me i made a mistake and never argued the point at the time something i am regretting.
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Post by Sigh on Feb 19, 2012 14:17:50 GMT -5
Don't you think that by doing all this that you're proving her right?
If she won't talk to you, you can't change anything.
Just leave her alone now.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 19, 2012 16:14:11 GMT -5
she has talked to me.I am gonna leave her alone i just have some regrets
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 20, 2012 0:10:32 GMT -5
Why is it intriguing?thanks for the advice guys i am hurting because i blame myself for our breakup. because it makes me wonder why she questions your mental health?
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 20, 2012 12:46:52 GMT -5
I suppose i used my problems with anxiety for getting on her back over her not texting me back quick enough.I was bad with that at times i used to think she was ignoring me.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 20, 2012 12:51:05 GMT -5
I also am suspicous that she may of met someone else.I don't understand how she can be all over me on the sunday and telling me she loves me.To not love me by tuesday don't make any sense.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 20, 2012 13:25:05 GMT -5
The reason i refer to mental health is after i sent the flowers she thanked me but said i am not in a fit state to have a relationship and i need help.
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Post by ura on Feb 20, 2012 14:41:22 GMT -5
This is the same woman who has a drugs problem and hit you, questioning your mental state.
You probably better off without her and even still consistently contacting her won't work and will like others said just scare her off.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 24, 2012 3:10:14 GMT -5
Well i still beat myself up over it as she says drove her away.I wish i could change some things that happened the day we broke up.I should of invited her out for a walk instead of going on my own.And i was acting miserable the last 2 days.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 26, 2012 8:14:44 GMT -5
How much space do you give someone?i mean that is good advice but then it could be argued your giving them time to get over you.Which if she still feels something you need to get in there quick.
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Post by Stranger on Feb 26, 2012 17:13:18 GMT -5
You should give someone as much space as they need.
Once you've made it clear how you feel, and you've admitted your regrets to her - without any guilt-tripping - you should let her decide what she wants to do on her own. As others have said, she's not a prize to win back. Trying to get back with her just because it makes you sad is fundamentally a selfish act. If you really love her, you'll want her to feel happy, even if that means not being with you.
I know it hurts, but you should really focus on moving on. Keep yourself busy, and try to meet new people whenever you can.
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Post by Karen on Feb 26, 2012 17:26:16 GMT -5
^ This is very good advice. I hope you will take it to heart Casanova.
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Post by casanova2 on Feb 27, 2012 15:49:13 GMT -5
Hey thanks for the advice i just find it hard after how much she told me she loved me.I mean she sent a really long text to me only around xmas with a million kisses in it telling me how much she felt for me.And others saying she didn't expect to feel that way about anyone again.She did say to me a few weeks later that i need perhaps to get myself sorted then we can talk about a future.So i now think she thinks the relationship caused me too much stress.I find it hard knowing how much she did care for me to let go.
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Post by casanova2 on Mar 1, 2012 3:23:03 GMT -5
I think she will comeback to me but will say she is over me just to rub it in.I really do have that feeling that will happen.
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