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Post by dell2541 on Jan 9, 2013 0:26:18 GMT -5
So tonight I went out with a woman who has a little boy. She is 29 and her son is 6. We had a really good time and even before dinner was done she asked if i wanted to get together again.
This is the first time that i have talked to someone with a child, im not against it by any means. In fact my father married my mom and she had two children from a previous marriage. They have been married 37 years.
in some way im a little hesitant but we seemed to clicked, she seemed really nice, and she is very pretty.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jan 9, 2013 0:36:16 GMT -5
why?  |
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Post by missklew on Jan 9, 2013 4:41:43 GMT -5
So tonight I went out with a woman who has a little boy. She is 29 and her son is 6. We had a really good time and even before dinner was done she asked if i wanted to get together again. This is the first time that i have talked to someone with a child, im not against it by any means. In fact my father married my mom and she had two children from a previous marriage. They have been married 37 years. in some way im a little hesitant but we seemed to clicked, she seemed really nice, and she is very pretty. If you like her, then why not give it a try. Try not to get involved with the child until things get serious. Kids might get sad to have a new friend and then they go away when their mom breaks up. I'm old and mean and I would never date anyone with kids. If I was younger, probably. |
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Post by Astroruss on Mar 6, 2013 13:32:54 GMT -5
So tonight I went out with a woman who has a little boy. She is 29 and her son is 6. We had a really good time and even before dinner was done she asked if i wanted to get together again. This is the first time that i have talked to someone with a child, im not against it by any means. In fact my father married my mom and she had two children from a previous marriage. They have been married 37 years. in some way im a little hesitant but we seemed to clicked, she seemed really nice, and she is very pretty. Yes, I understand what you mean. Young, single mothers are more willing to compromise and work together through all the problems that come with relationships. Plus, you get to fall in love with her child, too. So it's like getting two people to love for the price of one!  I fell in love with a single mexican woman about ten years ago who already had a child. She was a tiny girl, about 4'6", but she was really cute and had a heart of gold and had to sacrifice a lot to get by. We both worked in the same grocery store and I used to sack groceries for her whenever the lines were short and I wasn't needed at my own register, and we used to practice Spanish and English with each other all the time. However, just about when I was getting ready to propose she told me her son's dad had come back into the picture and her family was presurring her to bond with him again. So I got tossed out the door. I could've made a great husband and father to them.  But by all means, don't rule out the single mothers. They are very worth it.  |
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Post by Astroruss on Mar 6, 2013 13:40:10 GMT -5
why? Probably because of the kid's father, would be my guess. Single moms are great but there's always the biological father somewhere in the background to create tensions and problems, and usually does. Even if he's a deadbeat dad and bum and she doesn't want anything to do with him again, the biological father can ruin potential relationships. |
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