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Post by Twice-Shy on Nov 22, 2012 21:35:12 GMT -5
Hope you all had a great Thanksgiving Day! Some of us have problems during the holidays and sometimes are overcome with great sadness when we remember the loved ones who are not with us. And, many people have no one to spend these times with and are besieged by loneliness. We all need caring thoughts and loving prayer right now. May we all offer support to all those who have family problems, health struggles, job issues, worries of any kind and just need to know that someone cares. Nobody is immune. Remember, that even though folks don't come right out and say it... we do actually care! Peace to One and All!
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Post by Twice-Shy on Jun 11, 2011 7:57:48 GMT -5
We have been notified that the Adult section of SHY is against Proboards policy.
We will be removing it immediately!
Regards, Mary
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Post by Twice-Shy on Mar 30, 2011 18:35:29 GMT -5
My Color Test - Results
Your Existing Situation Works well with others. Needs personal relationships which are understanding and relatively conflict-free.
Your Stress Sources "Avoids pressure from others and insists on developing her individual independence. Wants to make up her own mind with resistance from others or outside forces, and needs the freedom to make her own decisions. Wants to be looked at as a wise individual whose opinions are respected, and has a hard time admitting she is wrong. Can be reluctant to accept or understand other people's opinions or point of view."
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
"Feels she is carry more than her share of problems. she is flexible and laid back, sticking to her goals and working to overcome any difficulty."
"Feels she is carry more than her share of problems. she is flexible and laid back, sticking to her goals and working to overcome any difficulty."
"Willing to become emotionally involved because she feels isolated and alone. she tries to avoid conflict and disagreements, but her arrogance leads her to quickly take offense."
Current events have her feeling forced to make bargains and put aside her own desires for now. she is able to find satisfaction and happiness through sexual activity.
Your Desired Objective "Looking for affectionate, fulfilling, and friendly relationships. Seeks intimacy and personal relationships full of love, self-sacrifice and trust."
Your Actual Problem "Wants to be valued and respected, seeks a close and peaceful relationship with a shared respect of each other."
Your Actual Problem #2 "Prefers to be left in peace and avoids arguments, confrontation, and conflicts."
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Post by Twice-Shy on Mar 30, 2011 18:29:17 GMT -5
Each and every one of us are who we are and our looks are part of that being. The hardest thing in life is trying to be "okay" about being me. I have found that it comes more naturally as I have grown older. As a kid and teen...that was no where in sight.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Mar 30, 2011 18:27:11 GMT -5
Seems to me that the government sponsored housing needs to be made aware of this person, her actions toward her kids and children of others.... there are rules. Most people that are bullies are good at avoiding the trouble they should get into for the disrespect of others. They become Good at what they do. Chances are, this did just come about. This woman has been like this most, if not all her life. She gets by with it, so she continues.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Mar 30, 2011 18:19:26 GMT -5
It can help with anxiety, as well. But, the side affects, as Sweet Pea mentioned, are not worth the short term benefits of the med.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Mar 30, 2011 18:10:30 GMT -5
Could it be that your tooth is sensitive to cold/heat? If so... they have toothpaste that will ease the sensitivity.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Aug 14, 2010 7:11:55 GMT -5
Do you feel intellectually deficient? Do you feel that you can never achieve the things you want due to not having a good enough mind? I borrowed this thread idea from another forum so I know at least a few other people feel the same way and I do wonder if its partly to do with shyness and low self-confidence, but I've always felt like I'm just not clever enough or creative enough or have a good enough memory to realize my intellectual ambitions...e.g. learning a language, writing a book, becoming an expert in something, being able to recite a subject I'm interested in to someone. I'm always forgetting what I just read, or losing concentration every few paragraphs in a book, or not being able to express ideas or knowledge in a coherent way. It's so frustrating sometimes, especially because there's so much out there that I want to learn and understand. I did go through a phase of being very jealous of people who were clearly more intelligent that I, but thankfully I'm not so bothered now. I just have a go at myself every time I forget things or can't grasp a concept quickly. However I suppose that just being aware of one's intellectual limitations is a sign of a half-decent mind. A lot of people seem to be oblivious to how little they know or how little they think. I'd hate to be like that. Anyone else feel this way? I can not speak for anyone else... but I have almost always felt inferior to everyone around me. Reading your post, it made me think of one thing though... I do not feel as if it has a direct relationship to a person's intelligence. What I think it boils down to is ones ability to express their thoughts or ideas in a BOLD fashion. The ability to BS, without regards to how it may look or sound to to others they are talking to. I have a tendency to stay along the side lines and observe. At least sometimes... the people that run the show in a crowd... are not really that much more knowledgeable, but are more able to "lay it on thick". This is strictly my opinion. I have found that the older I get, the less it bothers me to voice my opinion, though. Sometimes not a good thing, but none the less... it is what it is. ;D
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Post by Twice-Shy on Aug 10, 2010 4:54:36 GMT -5
Welcome to the gang you two ;D Hi Guys/Gals... I just wanted to let you know that I heard back from Scotty and wanted to let you all know that Scotty will also be a new Mod! Welcome Scotty and thank you to all 3 folks! Peace, Mary
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Post by Twice-Shy on Aug 8, 2010 19:34:17 GMT -5
Hi all... I wanted to announce that Rose, Strawberry and Scotty will be new moderators for SHY United. I am so glad that they decided to be mods. I feel they will add to our forum by being our new moderators! Congratulations Strawberry, Rose, Scotty and WELCOME! Thank You, Mary
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Post by Twice-Shy on Jun 30, 2010 9:50:01 GMT -5
Welcome!! One thing that helps to ease it all is to know... You are NOT alone! There are many people that feel much of the same thing in many degrees of shyness and/or social anxiety. May peace be with you!
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Post by Twice-Shy on Apr 4, 2010 10:58:20 GMT -5
Hope All of You have a VERY Happy Easter! I wanted to share this with you all: Peace, Mary
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Post by Twice-Shy on Mar 22, 2010 12:33:27 GMT -5
Tried to clean up SHY abit... hope you like it better ;-}
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Post by Twice-Shy on Jun 24, 2007 11:40:12 GMT -5
I personally don't like the thought of being burnt to a crisp. I am receptive to those that prefer Cremation, though.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Nov 2, 2005 5:54:28 GMT -5
I would say most peoples problem with the US is not with the people but with those running the country. I personally have never liked George Bush since the day I heard about his (lack of) environmental policies. I have to say though most things I don't like about the US are also things I don't like about my own country. I can not speak for the entire population of the country, but many American's feel the same... not just with the "lack of environmental policies"... actually, many other "policies" should be geared more for the good of all the people. Which, in my opinion, are not.
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