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Post by Outcast on Sept 11, 2013 9:19:40 GMT -5
COLOR QUIZPersonally, i think it's a pretty interesting site. I think the results vary and changes according to what you are feeling at the moment. Currently my results are: Your Existing Situation Feels there are barriers between himself and the essential things he desires. Your Stress Sources "Not a team player and is unwilling to be involved in most activities. In the past he was over involved and now emotionally drained. Due to his fear of over involvement, he now chooses to remain uninvolved with the activities around him. " Your Restrained Characteristics Giving more than he is getting back and feels misunderstood and unappreciated. Feels he is being forced into compromising and even his close relationships leave him feeling emotional distant. His arrogance causes him to take offense quickly. Only those closest to him know deep down he is sensitive and sentimental. Your Desired Objective "Does not feel there is any purpose in fulfilling his hopes and dreams, and therefore chooses the easy way and avoids conflicts. " Your Actual Problem Fear of being prevented from achieving the things he wants increases the need for security and freedom of conflict. Looking for stability and a relaxing environment. Well, it seems that what's really hampering me is my pride. My arrogance. I do believe that lowering my pride could really help me with some things.
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Post by Sexy Spork #37 on Sept 11, 2013 11:21:04 GMT -5
Really interesting. Fun to see what is going on inside that little brain of mine.
Your Existing Situation "Outgoing but unpredictable and unstable. Likes things to go his way, otherwise he becomes agitated, indecisive, and fake in his activities."
That's a shock. Don't really agree with that. More, things don't go my way ever and that causes be to become agitated. Sort of true.
Your Stress Sources "Wishes for freedom and independence, free from limitations and restrictions except for the ones he choices to give himself."
Oh, that's nice.
Your Restrained Characteristics "Tries to participate and involve himself in things going on around him; however, avoids conflict and arguments to reduce stress and tension."
Yup.
"Finds satisfaction in sexual activity, but is emotionally detached which prevents him from becoming too involved."
Erm... what, now? I'm a virgin, how does that work? Best not think about it.
"Feels he is not receiving his fair share and is unable to rely on anyone for support or sympathy. He keeps his emotions bottled up, leaving him quick to take offense to small things. He tries to make the best of his situation."
Yeah, that's about right. But I don't complain. It's the way of all things.
Your Desired Objective "Has a strong desire to contribute and influence others, but it can make him restless. He is driven by his desires and hopes. Enjoys a wide range of activities, but he may spread himself to thin taking on too much."
Uh-huh. Suppose.
Your Actual Problem "Feeling held back and restricted from moving forward, looking for a solution that will give him more freedom and less obstacles."
Yeah, but I wouldn't admit it. Except just then. Damnnit.
Interesting exercise. All about colour. Who knew, eh?
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Post by Grayback on Sept 11, 2013 13:31:53 GMT -5
It's indeed a great test though I have a feeling I did it once before, a long time ago. Your Existing Situation "Is reckless and short-tempered. His decisions are made with little thought out the consequences, often times leading to unnecessary stress and conflict." This is not starting off well, is it ? This is actually not right at all, I have difficulty taking decisions and take way too much time in making a choice which is indeed a cause of stress for myself. Your Stress Sources Tries to hold back his normal enthusiastic and imaginative self in fear that he may get carried away by it and chase after unrealistic goals. Feels betrayed and used and is staying emotionally distant to keep others from hurting him more. He is distrusting and suspicious of the actions and intentions of other people. That on the other hand is very accurate. Your Restrained Characteristics Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation. "Although he is able to find contentment through sexual activity, he feels hopeless to change his problems and difficulties and continues to make the best of what he has." "Insists his hopes and ideas are realistic and achievable, but needs encouragement and support. His self-centeredness can cause him to take things too personally."If by sexual activity you mean masturbation then sure, I suppose I am quite content . The rest is once again fairly accurate. Your Desired Objective "Wishes to live in a calm, peaceful, relaxing environment, where everyone gets along and there is a strong sense of belonging." Yes I do, I can't argue with that. Your Actual Problem Disappointed because his hopes have not come to pass and he fears coming up with new goals will only lead to further disappointment. These conflicting emotions lead to a feeling of anxiety and depression. He tries to escape into a peaceful and calm relationship which offers encouragement and protection from further disappointment. Indeed, that is why I have such a tumultuous relationship with my computer, most of the times instead of encouraging me, she just sends me error messages . Your Actual Problem #2 "Tends to be too trusting, so he must protect himself from this or he runs the risk of being misunderstood or used by others. Searching for a relationship which provides a safe and understanding environment, one where he knows exactly where he stands with his partner at all times." Yeah, though I'm definitely not as naïve as I used to be a few years back. And yes, that's indeed the kind of relationship I'd be looking for if I could ( that is to say, if my computer wasn't kepping me hostage, help me please ! ).
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Post by StarFall on Sept 11, 2013 16:31:40 GMT -5
Your Existing Situation
"Searching for a close bond with others which are accepting and kind. Needs a safe, peaceful atmosphere."
Absolutely.
Your Stress Sources
"Wishes for freedom and independence, free from limitations and restrictions except for the ones she chooses to give herself."
Yes, can I please move out of my parents' house and into my own place soon!?
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Working on it.
"Self-centered, tends to take this personally and is easily offended, which leaves her feeling isolated."
Possible.
"Current situation makes her feel unable to prove herself, but tries to make the best of things."
Pretty much.
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Not sure why this was listed twice on my results. Maybe it's doubly important?
Your Desired Objective
"Has a strong desire to contribute and influence others, but it can make her restless. She is driven by her desires and hopes. Enjoys a wide range of activities, but she may spread herself too thin taking on too much."
Can we say accurate? Yes we can.
Your Actual Problem
"Feeling held back and restricted from moving forward, looking for a solution that will give her more freedom and less obstacles."
Indeed.
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Post by silence on Sept 13, 2013 12:55:00 GMT -5
Your Existing SituationAuthoritative or in a position of power or leadership. Feels that current difficulties are causing problems and she is unable to progress further. Determined and commanding she strives for her goals despite the obstacles she faces. Not at all. So far from the truth I lack goals and motivation and have no power. Your Stress Sources"Delights in the finer things in life and things that appeal to the senses, but can be critical. Is careful and cautious and must believe she is not being manipulated or tricked. Keeps her emotions in check and is always analysing her relationships in order to know exactly where she stands at all times. Demands complete honesty as a protection against her naturally trusting nature." hmm don't think soYour Restrained CharacteristicsCurrent events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation. "Struggles to make her demands clear, but feels ignored. Feels resentful, but acts as if she doesn't care, doing what is necessary to keep peace." "Willing to become emotionally involved, but is demanding and picky when choosing a partner. Is careful not to bring out conflict or disagreements as this may decrease her chances of achieving her goals and ideas." Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation. "Struggles to make her demands clear" yes. Your Desired Objective"Needs peaceful surroundings. Looking for relief from stress, conflict, and arguments. Tries to control potentially harmful situations and arguments by treading lightly. Is sensitive, emotional, and has an eye for detail." yes Your Actual Problem"Tends to be too trusting, so she must protect herself from this or she runs the risk of being misunderstood or used by others. Searching for a relationship which provides a safe and understanding environment, one where she knows exactly where she stands with her partner at all times." never given much thought about trust. But I think the last part is trueInteresting. But probably overall inaccurate for me.
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Post by Zoe on Oct 26, 2013 8:22:20 GMT -5
Your Existing Situation "Searching for a close bond with others which are accepting and kind. Needs a safe, peaceful atmosphere." Very trueYour Stress Sources "His stubbornness and will-power has become weakened due to current difficulties. Feels overworked and emotionally drain; as if all her work is for nothing and she is getting nowhere. The situation is very real to her and she wants to escape, but has no idea how to do so or how to even approach the situation rationally." OMG..... so accurate!Your Restrained Characteristics "His desire to avoid open conflict and tension forces her to put her desires on hold, even though she is feeling restrained and uneasy." Yep that's meApplies tough standards to her potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in her sex life. I don't entirely agree with this comment though.....unless its the subconscious speaking Your Desired Objective "Longs for tenderness and for a feeling of acceptance from a partner. Appreciates things that are beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and stylish." Yes to the first part...... unsure about appreciates the stylish bit....Your Actual Problem "Tension and stress is brought on by trying to cope with conditions which are out of her control, using up all her strength and leaving her feeling inadequate. she wishes to escape into a more peaceful and problem-free environment, in which she will no longer have to assert herself or deal with so much pressure." Me in a nutshellThis quiz is eeriely accurate for most of the part.....thanks for the link, it was interesting!
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Post by Crashtastic on Oct 26, 2013 11:39:27 GMT -5
Your Existing Situation "Craves change and new things, always looking for new adventures and activities. Becomes restless and frustrated when she has to wait to long for things to develop. her impatience leads to irritability and a desire to move on to the next project." This is true, but I don't try hard enough for change....which leads for more frustration.Your Stress Sources "Avoids pressure from others and insists on developing her individual independence. Wants to make up her own mind with resistance from others or outside forces, and needs the freedom to make her own decisions. Wants to be looked at as a wise individual whose opinions are respected, and has a hard time admitting she is wrong. Can be reluctant to accept or understand other people's opinions or point of view." I try to admit when I'm wrong. Most things I'm easy going about but every once in a while I'll hit on something that I won't budge on. My opinion on things are pretty solid, but I'll just listen to other people and let them have their own most of the time...most of the time. Your Restrained Characteristics "Has high emotional expectations and desires to be the center of attention, which makes it difficult to find a satisfying relationship. her reserved, cautious nature makes her emotionally distant." I think I do have some sort of deep-seated desire to be the center of attention. Despite how attention embarrasses me to a degree. I think that is just shame...but anyways I don't know if this is true about my relationships. A few years ago I had a therapist who said that I hide my feeling and emotions quite well, when I was under the impression they were all out on my sleeve. I feel everything on the inside very strongly so I guess its hard for me believe I can hide it. "Emotionally demanding and will involve herself in close relationships but won't get too involved or give too much of himself." I don't know if this is true. I fight to give myself to someone in a relationship because I know that's what I have to do to have a healthy one. I think that a lot of the time I lose that fight though. It's hard to say. Sometimes I wish I could see what it looks like from someone else's point of view. ...and why does it say himself....
"Seeking to broaden her horizons and believes her hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries she may not be able to do the things she wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore her confidence." Yeah."His arrogance causes her to take offense quickly. Only those closest to her know deep down she is sensitive and sentimental." Meh. Sensitive and sentimental yes...arrogant not as much."Current events have her feeling forced to make bargains and put aside her own desires for now. she is able to find satisfaction and happiness through sexual activity."
That's what I have done in the past....and what I have the desire to do now.... (sidenote: There is this dude at work whom I've been crushing on for months now. I know he likes me a little at least but he's opposite sex shy, just as I am. It's pretty obvious. He went to help with something and got nervous with a little bit of shakiness, when I see him talk to other people just fine lol The other day I came across him on okcupid. He is into some weird sex stuff. Like wanting to rape women and all this control crap....scary....but I still find myself considering it. What is wrong with me? He could be some abusive looney with the way he answered some of those questions! I think I must be a bit off.)
Your Desired Objective Is extremely determined to make her presence known as an important part of any team. she is flexible and able to do what is necessary to stand out from the crowd. Is willing to overcome any conflicts and difficulties that may stand in her way. There have been few circumstances where I have put myself in this postition, but I do take leadership roles pretty well when my insecurities don't get in the way. Your Actual Problem "Needs to be viewed and respected as an outstanding individual, in order to build her self-esteem and self-worth. Resists any type of weakness and sets high standards for himself." I like to feel useful. and I have ridiculous expectations for myself that are usually my downfall. I can't live up to them so most of the time I just want to give up and stop trying all together with. I never quite do give up, but all the urge to definitely hinders all kinds of potential and progress I could be making in life. Your Actual Problem #2 "Is resistant of outside pressures and control, or anything that stands in the way of her freedom to make her own decisions and plans. Works hard to establish and build her position and status." Don't work hard enough. I don't have any postition or status.
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Post by Audio the obscure on Jun 10, 2014 22:08:53 GMT -5
Wow this test pegged me well indeed. Here are my results:
Color Test - Results
Your Existing Situation
"Searching for a close bond with others which are accepting and kind. Needs a safe, peaceful atmosphere."
Your Stress Sources
"Feels unappreciated and in an unpleasant position. Needs personal recognition and the respect of others, since she has not been about to find partners who value the same things she does. she holds back her emotions and is unable to give fully of himself, but lasting isolation makes her want to change those ways and surrender to her deep urges. Giving in to her natural instincts and urges is a sign of weakness, so feeling this way makes her weak and irritable. Fighting these urges makes her feel stronger, as if she can take on anything that comes her way. Longs to be valued as an important associate and admired for her personal qualities."
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
"Current situation makes her feel unable to prove himself, but tries to make the best of things."
Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. she is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity.
"Believes her hopes and dreams are realistic, but needs reassurance from others. Has strict standards when looking for a partner and wants guarantees that she will not be disappointed or lose."
Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Your Desired Objective
"Longs for tenderness and for a feeling of acceptance from a partner. Appreciates things that are beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and stylish."
Your Actual Problem
Lack of energy leaves her unnoticed to pursue further activities or demands placed on her. she feels powerless which leaves her agitated and depressed. Tries to escape from her struggles by searching for peaceful and restful conditions in which to relax and recover in an atmosphere full of security.
Your Actual Problem #2
"Wants to be valued and respected, seeks a close and peaceful relationship with a shared respect of each other."
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Post by Outcast on Oct 23, 2018 21:01:34 GMT -5
Hmmm.. So i took the test again.
Looks like my perspective has changed a bit.
Your Existing Situation
Yup. Been sensitive and easily affected by what others say or feel. Well, looking for them in bottled app, slowly app, skout app, and dating sites i guess.
Your Stress Sources
Yeah. I believe i don't have much freedom/control in my life. A lot of people dictate what i should do or should be doing.
Your Restrained Characteristics
I think i'm trying to act/do/like what i see normally do/act/like. Who isn't bothered when he/she is misunderstood.
No comment on the last part.
Your Desired Objective
Yeah guess that's what you look for in a dating site.
Your Actual Problem
Typical trait of an INFP personality.
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