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Post by logan546 on Dec 10, 2013 19:05:12 GMT -5
I do not know how to go to a woman/lady and start a conversation. I barely can get a smile off. I am 38 yrs old receding hairline chubby glasses and I cant do it. I go to this restaurant/bar in my area all the time and see this person that I know I want to talk to and just cant do it. Problem is she is bartender plus there a couple at the place I do want to talk to.
It is not just that it is everywhere I go. What should I do
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 17, 2013 10:40:05 GMT -5
i think the first step is to have something you really want to say. what do you care about? what are you passionate about? explore issues of importance to you, inform yourself, form opinions. then you'll always have things to talk about. there may be some who won't have the same interests, but you'll be able to find people who do. rather than focusing on trying to talk to anybody about anything, focus on talking to somebody about something.
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Post by glassbox on Mar 24, 2014 16:21:46 GMT -5
Start with a compliment, something small. Then have a question in mind. Ask her something that you want to know about her. If you can make it relate to the situation at hand, it will seem more natural to her and less awkward for you. The one thing people always love to talk about is themselves. If you get her talking, that will also help keep you from having to talk too much. Inevitably, if the conversation goes on long enough, she will likely eventually ask about you, even if it is just to be polite. However, in this case the question will likely relate to the conversation, and thus will be more specific. I find it easier to talk about things in general and to talk about myself when there is a specific question to focus on answering. I hope this helps
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