I have to say that I am not completely shy, but I have to say that I still am. I live in Germany but I am an American. I am separated from my wife now for about two years. I think my divorce is almost complete. It is now in the hands of the courts anyway. Like I said I am not completely shy. I do make an attempt to talk to women but I do have to say it is not going so well. The reason I came here is because of a book and a search. The book I am currently reading says I should get involved in a forum like this. Well Here I am. I will try my best to participate. I hope to have some fun conversations with you folks.