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Post by annie on Apr 14, 2003 13:49:15 GMT -5
Hello peeps! Good to see you! I am shy, quiet and sensitive. My current boyfriend is the opposite. He's loud and chatty. The mix just seems to work great and we get on like a house on fire. Does anybody else have a chalk and cheese relationship? Or do you have a cheese cheese one?
I loved to hear from you all.
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Post by moogle on Apr 14, 2003 14:27:54 GMT -5
my boyfriend tried to tell me once that he's shy. but that's a load. he's very social and a flirt and everyone loves him, and it makes things very hard on me.
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Post by unionjackattack86 on Apr 15, 2003 3:24:12 GMT -5
I can understand why its hard for you Moogle, my ex girlfriend wasn't a flirt or anything but she was very pretty and whilst we were together, a few lads give her offers and it didn't make me feel too secure with her especially when her grandmother use to tell me about it, id rather not know really.
I mainly use to be told it when I had done something or said something wrong and I would be told well there's other lads who want to go out with her, I just felt like saying i'm not bothered she can have them if she wants them, if not then shut up about it.
Back to the original question, i've never had a chalk and cheese relationship as i've only had one relationship to date and we were both pretty shy/quiet, although that one ended so maybe chalk and cheese does work.
I can see why it would be good as I love people who talk alot because i'm not very good at making conversation, and they would be more willing to push forward in things shy people avoid doing.
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Post by spitzig on Apr 15, 2003 3:40:26 GMT -5
my boyfriend tried to tell me once that he's shy. but that's a load. he's very social and a flirt and everyone loves him, and it makes things very hard on me. Did you ask him why he says he's shy? Not everyone is shy at all times. Also, introverted and shy often go together, but they are not synonymous. A person can be extroverted and shy. |
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Post by NewOrleansLady on Apr 20, 2003 2:07:54 GMT -5
My husband is outgoing and I find us to be a good mix as well. He's a very funny guy and most people expect him to always be "on", so with me he can just be himself, and he helps me be more personable in social situations.
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