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Post by holly on Apr 17, 2003 5:04:53 GMT -5
I don't know whether I should post this but I will. My boyfriend is incredibly sensitive and shy. He is in his late teens. We have been going out for a few months. THe thing is everytime we try to go to the next level he literally is a flop[ in bed. He says it is becasue he is too shy. Come on guys, is this right? How do I cure him?
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Post by moogle on Apr 19, 2003 14:12:24 GMT -5
i don't know how graphic i can get on this site, and i'd pm or email you if you were a member, but i can't. so, does your boyfriend respond to other sexual things? maybe he feels pressure to perform well. i've never run into this problem before  |
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Post by NewOrleansLady on Apr 20, 2003 1:54:55 GMT -5
I'm assuming he's a virgin. Just take things slow with him. Wait until he is comfortable enough. I'm sure things will be fine  |
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Post by spitzig on Apr 20, 2003 11:58:52 GMT -5
Assuming he's a virgin, he might have some illusions about sex. It's not often an earth-shattering experience. I tend to think that if you're not having fun, you're missing the point.
I'm guessing he feels a lot of pressure to perform. So, it might help to get as close to sex as possible with involving him needing to not be a flop. Just mess around naked--without the intent of having sex. I'd guess he'd eventually get comfortable with that. Then, gradually move closer to actual sex. If he's not comfortable with something, keep doing it until he's relaxed doing it.
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