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Post by Chris2208 on Jun 4, 2003 17:30:55 GMT -5
anyone else have one? so i don't feel like im the only one.
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Post by moogle on Jun 4, 2003 21:20:44 GMT -5
i've had a few. having one right now.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Jun 5, 2003 4:06:12 GMT -5
I've never had an internet 'love' but I've met a few lovely ladies on the net. The last one was a girl from Australia. I live in Ireland sso the distance was a killer. I kept telling her that I was going to smear my body in goose fat and swim the ocean to be wwith her but it didn't work. It was great fun though. Internet loves can work.
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Post by moogle on Jun 5, 2003 6:57:12 GMT -5
I kept telling her that I was going to smear my body in goose fat and swim the ocean to be wwith her but it didn't work. you actually tried it??
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Post by Mildman1 on Jun 5, 2003 13:37:33 GMT -5
What is internet love? Does it involve actually meeting someone face to face? If not, does it mean you're "in love" with them just via internet communication?
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Post by moogle on Jun 5, 2003 14:03:24 GMT -5
i just assumed he meant romantic relationship. i've met all the people i've ever been in an online relationship with, but not always before we were 'together'.
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Post by spitzig on Jun 5, 2003 17:42:40 GMT -5
I've fallen in love with someone I met online. One of those matchmaking sites. I think, before the male-female ratio was so bad. Also, before they were infested by porn advertisements.
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Post by Mildman1 on Jun 6, 2003 15:52:16 GMT -5
Was that person shy?Did you present yourself as shy before you had emailed them?
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Post by g3netix on Jun 6, 2003 18:12:16 GMT -5
yah same for me, ive met a wonderful girl called vicki who i love laods and she loves me, im in london and shes in manchester such a shame, but we plan to meet, i dunno if we will, but if we do it will be great! ive had a few internet relationships b4 but none like this, she said she had fallen for me and i fell for her ages back, we swaped phoned numbers and started txt'ing each other alot and now its gone futher and we actually talk on phone! i cant believe it, i was very nervous the first time cos u know, im shy heh, but i think i did well, we talked for a while until my battery had gone dead, this is the first time ive like ever spoke to some1 over the phone that ive met over the internet, its amazing i cant believe i had the courage to do it, we have talked 4 times more since, and shes building up my confidence i can tell, im speaking more at work now, i was so happy the other day that i phoned her and told her i love her! it was great, im sorry to blabble on im just happy now
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Post by Mildman1 on Jun 7, 2003 6:42:01 GMT -5
That's great g3netix!
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Post by spitzig on Jun 11, 2003 12:53:32 GMT -5
Was that person shy?Did you present yourself as shy before you had emailed them? I'd say she was a little shy. Not much, though. We still email each other, and she doesn't see why I'm nervous about asking for phone numbers and all that.
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Post by sweetness on Jun 15, 2003 15:01:18 GMT -5
I think more and more people are getting familiar with internet and internet dating is getting at least here in europe now- in us maybe years ago allready- more and more common. I ve had internet about 3 to 4 years. I met my first real love online 3 years ago. Although it wasnt easy from the beginning, it was also almost unreal when it happened to me. It was very long distance, us-europe But after 4 months he came to visit. It was heaven. After 1 year i broke up with him for several reasons. A few months later, he started mailing again, we soon were talking frequently again. The last 6 months we came closer and closer..and i started have strong feelings again for him...and so told him a week ago..we had a long talk about life and the past..and i dont know what to do with it..he says he still has feelings for me..but on the other hand i get the feeling he doesnt want to get back together anymore(although he told me several times the last few months he hopes to meet me again -and he keeps talking to me about how wonderfull it was when we were together) -maybe it is because i broke it off last time,i dont know and its difficult to let go..i emailed him since once but i didnt get a respond, feel like he s avoiding me..also starting to think he didnt expect me to have these feelings anymore and got scared..i m confused.. :-/
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Post by rocketboy on Feb 8, 2004 4:48:42 GMT -5
I meet my now girlfriend on americansingles i never thought i would find anyone on there i was just doing it for fun and i didnt have to say anything for girls to notice me but i seen her and couldnt resist so we started talking on aim and then on the phone acouple of weeks later which was really hard for me i hung up the phone like 4 times before i actually called her but it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be we have been going out for about 6 mo now and everthing is goin great the only thing hard for me now is meeting her parents and other family and caring on a conversation with them i really need to work on that i just never know what to say and i dont want to look stupid for saying the wrong thing
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Post by Naptaq on Feb 8, 2004 12:11:53 GMT -5
i meet a girl in a chat room.. and everytime we talked she liked me more and eventualy fallen for me.. since my last romance ended with the girl dumping me i was kinda carful.. turns out i have somewhat fallen for her too an i eventualy called her.. now i come from some country in europe that dosent talk english, and my girl does (she's overseas).. well the first time we talked for like 2 minutes, and i was like nervous like you wouldn't belive.. and well i didn't understand the half of the things she said .. anyway i was so pround of myself that i called.. then i called again this time like a minute.. it's like i dunno what to say and im so goddamn nervous with a weird accent.. (god bless you all english speaking folks ).. then like in september she dumped me, and then like two moths after that we started talking again and she said she made a mistake letting me go.. i sure was confused,, cus i was like letting go.. and it's been good since then we regulary talk on YIM.. and oh i called her the third time on the phone and we talked like 5 minutes till my cell phone went dead.. still was nervous as hell but oh well.. still i ain't sure if she's the one and sometimes i hesitate saying "i love you" cus i belive these words are to say when they are realy meant.. but hey time will tell i gues..thanks to all who read this thrugh
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Post by PABLUM on Feb 10, 2004 11:03:03 GMT -5
yes i had one and it was just a disaster. I met him and on the net i was totally a different person. ratherthan the shy reserved and quiet woman I am, i was bold, i was a tell it like it is kind of person and very opiniated. When I met him, he took my shyness for weakness and abused me emotionally. He bullied me, he talked about our love life on the net and when I ocnfronted him because someone used a nick named and talked about what we did the night or the day before, the conversation we had , all if I talked about my insecurities people made fun of me, and I felt so bad. He denied it was him and I cannot prove it so i chose to believe him and the abuse continued until we break up. No I think the abuse really started after our break-up which was nasty. In fact I was at his house, and just like that he told me he was expecting company and he asked me if i wanted to stay or not. I said, because i felt so shy around people that I prefer to go home. And just like that he opened the door and tell me : I don't put people out but the door is open. And he was laughing. I didn't move. So we left together . After that he called me and we had a discussion a heated argument and I yelled at him telling all his secrets on the net in a chat room. He told mines also and we continued back and forth to insult each other. It did not stop there, because eventually we hook up and he told me he had another woman. I believed him and I did not believe him also because he was too available. But what he did was persecute me with his new woman and his friends to make fun of me, and to hurt me constantly. he knew my sensitive point and used them against me. I mean if he wanted to break-up with me, why the humiliation? And it did not stop there because Imet someone else after him on the net, and my life was public, so like my ex boyfriend eh started to abuse me because he was also encouraged by others to do so. So he talked about our intimate life also, and just like the ex boyfriend, he debnied it when i confronted him. I felt so used and I couldn't trust nobody because of what my ex did to me. I am shy so I don't necessarly know how to defend myself but I couldn't trust noboidy because sometimes, people I have never known strated , when they saw me, to make comments, comments I recognized who came from my ex boyfriend.
he said it is my fault if i am treated this way, but he is the one who choses to treat me this way, exactly what a man who abuses his wife will say. You broke that glass this is why i am beating you. Really a bad experience on the net.
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