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Post by SADdaydreamer on Oct 24, 2003 0:20:33 GMT -5
Hey everybody,
I just wanted to know if anyone knew of a good FREE dating service---one w/ free email hopefully doesn't require membership. Or just a simple idea on where to meet shy gals would be cool. I think if I ever do find true love, she will be a kind, caring, supportive, and almost definitely shy girl.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Oct 27, 2003 4:26:51 GMT -5
We have an excellent free dating section on the main SHY United Homepage. There are so lovely girls on there!
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Post by SADdaydreamer on Oct 28, 2003 1:50:11 GMT -5
Yeah I checked it out Shane, It is technically free and it seems really cool if you have money for all the perks----email and what not...too bad I can't afford it. Thanks for the suggestion though!!!
P.S. you are the man and have every ounce of my respect for what you do!!!
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Post by Twice-Shy on Oct 28, 2003 3:51:53 GMT -5
Thanks for that. The site is going from strength to strength. We are on course for a record number of visitors this month. Hopefully we can keep that going.
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Post by yamazaru on Nov 7, 2003 18:46:45 GMT -5
just wondering, SADdaydreamer are you shy? I'm assuming so since you are on this site....but do you really think that the best relationship would be with a shy girl? if you are both shy who would ever talk? I'm shy most of the time but i don't think i would necissarily want to date a shy guy because then we would never have conversations......just a thought.....
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Post by spitzig on Nov 7, 2003 22:30:51 GMT -5
I often hit it off a lot with shy people--I relate to them. On the other hand, I often don't get conversations going with shy people. Basically, I think my relationships with shy people tend toward the extremes in this regard. I mean, I converse with people--but usually only when I know them.
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Post by SADdaydreamer on Nov 23, 2003 21:36:12 GMT -5
...but do you really think that the best relationship would be with a shy girl? if you are both shy who would ever talk? I'm shy most of the time but i don't think i would necissarily want to date a shy guy because then we would never have conversations......just a thought..... Yamazuru, Yea i would definitely say i'm shy. I am looking for a girl who is shy just so i might feel a little more comfortable around her and she will understand me more. I hate it when people, especially a girl friend asks why i'm so quiet or not talking, it makes me feel uncomfortable and less closer w/ them. But maybe u do have a point, someone needs to talk. I just feel that a talkative, energetic, outgoing chick wouldnt want to be tied down w/ a shy guy that feels socially inadequate/boring. |
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Post by Chester8o5 on Dec 9, 2003 14:11:49 GMT -5
just wondering, SADdaydreamer are you shy? I'm assuming so since you are on this site....but do you really think that the best relationship would be with a shy girl? if you are both shy who would ever talk? I'm shy most of the time but i don't think i would necissarily want to date a shy guy because then we would never have conversations......just a thought..... im gonna have to speak out on this one. its been my experience that shy to shy makes the best relationships. the shy girl i started dating 3 years ago thought the same thing. we have been together 3 years now and shes now one of the most outgoing people i know. with that said, i still havent conquered my case, but im gettimg better. good luck, Chester |
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Post by Chris2208 on Dec 13, 2003 15:15:39 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]do you really think so chester? cause i too may be going out with this shy but extremely nice girl. i mean i have to get to know her a little better first but we have great convos on da net, and i am starting to miss her. so yeah i gotta get to know her but i hope it works for me   [/glow]
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Post by Some Guy on Dec 18, 2003 16:54:37 GMT -5
When i was in A-level college in my second and last year there was a shy girl in my class who i didnt speak a word to until near the end of the year (for obvious reasons). We started to talk more and more toward the end but college soon ended and i havent seen her since and probably wont again. Since college this has been a big regret of mine because im sure now she would have made a great friend or more given extra time, or if i had actually said something 10 months before. I reckon i could get on much better with a shy girl like that because i would feel like I was their equal. I think a lot of shyness stems from feeling inadquate around confident, outgoing people and there is no feeling of inadequacy around someone with the same problem as you.
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Post by Vanessa110 on Jan 12, 2004 20:21:00 GMT -5
This is to SADdaydreamer, you know, this is the first time I've seen anyone write or talk about the shy-shy dynamic. I have been very shy since as long as I can remember. A friend of mine who is as outgoing as anyone can be, said that it(if and when I'm ready to go on a date that is) would be good for me to be with someone to bring me out of my shell. I'm the type who has only made strides in my own time. I can't be rushed. No matter how far I come, I will never be able to be with someone who is not at least a little shy. That way I would feel at least we're on the same level. Even though I'm 28, I can't handle anything else.
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