Post by assistance on Oct 29, 2003 23:35:58 GMT -5
k there is this girl i really like and i just cant seem to ask her out or even talk to her. Reasons? 1. i am too shy to talk to her and she is too shy to talk to anyone 2. it seems like asking her out is the last thing on my mind while im around her, i duno why, but thats the way it goes. HELP
I bet you a pound to a penny she feels exactly the same as you. I've been in the same situation so many times. When I'm just about to speak to somebody I would love to date I clam up. Instead of just walking up to her and asking her out, try to make a conversation about the most irrelavent thing in the world like the weather.Try to build up a friendship and take it from there.
Positive website for people who are shy and/or are interested in self-help.
We may be too late with advice - the orginal post was the end of October. However, if not, how about pre-writing a note that explains you get all tongue-tied around her but would like to go out on XXX (pick a specific date), and hand her the note when you next see her?
Each indecision brings its own delays and days are lost lamenting over lost days... What you can do or think you can do, begin it. For boldness has magic, power, and genius in it.