Best time for romance?

[Twice-Shy]

I've going through a bit of a tricky spell. I seperated from my wife and kids 18 months ago. I'm feel pretty lonely at the minute. I think its this time of year. We were together for a long time and we have some lovely Chritmasses together. I was wondering does anybody else out there have a particular time of the year that thye dread. Or maybe love?

[CaryGrant]

Sorry to hear about your separation, Shane. I hope you can still have a great Christmas with your kids. I do miss that, myself.

I don't get lonely, but I do get tired of being alone, if that makes sense? I would like to have a date or even casual g/f lined up by Christmas, simply because it's a goal I've set myself.

[spitzig]

Christmas is usually a lonely time. No family within 500 miles, and family is big for Christmas. Romance seems big for Christmas, too, and I don't know whether I'll even have a date before NEXT Christmas. This Christmas, it's not going to be as bad. School is keeping me busy, so I don't have all that much time to worry. And as far as family, my sister is in jail. So, any thinking about family tends to be concern about her.

I like summer. I like the heat. I like walking around in shorts, t-shirt, sandals, as little clothes as possible.

[catch22]

hey
sorry to hear about your situation Shane, i hope you have a great christmas, only 19 days to go,

i agree that christmas can be a very loney time of year, but i've decided to make this year a happy one, im just gonna have loads of fun and not care.

i think that summer is a great time, come on all the fit 'scenery' (guy) with no tops on ; thats got to be the best time ever , anyone agree? lol

catch22

[spitzig]

catch22 said:

i think that summer is a great time, come on all the fit 'scenery' (guy) with no tops on ; thats got to be the best time ever , anyone agree? lol

Well, I don't get too excited about the guys. I do like seeing the women, though. ;D That can get depressing, though. Instead of the occasional woman to drool over, who I am too shy for, there are lots of women to drool over, who I am too shy for.

And, I live a couple hundred miles from a beach. I've never been there, because I'd feel geeky going that distance by myself, just to sit in the sand for a day or two. So, seeing women dressed REALLY nicely is even rarer. And, in grad school, it's not like I'm tripping over the stacks of money.

[EdgedInBlue]

The winter, for me at least, is wonderful. I wear sweatshirts all year long (I don't want an ybody to notice me so I cover up) and in the wintertime, I at least have an excuse. lol!