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Post by Naptaq on Mar 17, 2004 13:16:28 GMT -5
so a few days ago she starts saying like "you're the love of my life" and stuff like that... i do really like this girl and at the begining that pyhisical aperence of her'sbothered me but i think something else is the case now... i fear like that when we meet herwe won't get along that well since im shy and all that.. but hey it should get better all i need is time but the chemistry must be there and all that with her.. so CaryGrant you're right about that, there needs to be some kind of chemistry going on between us when we meet.. if not then ok let's forget about that let's move on, which i hope won't happen yah, Jarous love without lust can be and it could nbe beutiful, but i think that in my case that won't be the case unless somethin happens or at least we get too old lol and last but not least spitzig i think her vioce it's damn hot lol i tryed cybersex with her.. it was not so bad.. noooo im lying, i did it multiple times and it was good
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Post by Ghost on Mar 17, 2004 14:01:02 GMT -5
Well...she sure is quick with the "you're the love of my life". Esepcially when you still have some doubts and are quite relaxed about it. But at least she is completely mad about you Having a realtion with someone on the internet is a little risky, in my opinion. First, you have to fall in love with how she acts online. Then, if you meet her you must not sudden feel not attracted anymore (permanent) because of her looks. If that is the case, the love is not deep enough. Second, you will have to see if the person she acts to be on the internet is the kind of person she is in real. And not just for one meeting or date, but everywhere, whetever with friends, school, at home or with you. Not just for a while, but all the time. And when you are not around too. Some people have masks they wear at every occasion. Yes, everyone acts a little different with other people, that's natural: you don't have the same relationship with your parents as you have with your friends. But some people do act different in a more extreme way, that they really shift personalities and say one thing to you but something else against another. Also, I knew a person who had a internet relationship with a girl for some weeks. And sudden she stopped it and apparently found someone else in "real life". They remained friends though. Still, this says something else too. If there is a distance between you and you won't meet regular, most people break up because of that (there are quite a few I knew who moved and they decided to break up). Also you have to spend quality time as friends together in "real life" before you can be sure if you would like to be with that person all the time. And you get to know that person better in how they deal with situations and how they really act in those cases and how they handle themselves nad others (people sometimes say something they don't act like or make something sound worse/better then it really is). Ps, not meant to say it will not work out (ok, I am not saying it will, but time will tell), I am just very careful with such things
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Post by Naptaq on Mar 18, 2004 11:08:54 GMT -5
awsome tips Ghost.. thanks a bunch
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Post by Ghost on Mar 20, 2004 5:17:08 GMT -5
See! If I rant long enough there is bound to be some useful pointers in it Y'welcome.
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Post by Naptaq on Jul 26, 2004 18:29:20 GMT -5
so here's my update on my situation After beeing on and off for a few times.. well here's what happened. Once that we chatted she said that she also likes girls and that she is like dating some other girl or something.. i don't know about you guys but I didn't like that 2 much plus I didn't know how to tell her that the 2 of us will be just friends cus i was feelin i was not being honest with her and that the love wasn't there.. so becuse i didn't like her sexuality she finaly ended it. --------------------------------------------------------------------- Turns out she was just playin' with my mind and that she was indeed straight. Well who would of thought..it was this that ended it. But hey I'm not complaining. As I see it now it was meant to happen anyways. But it was a great break up though lol. I mean seriusly she wrote me 2 long emails about me, us and shit im going thrugh, gave me tips.. so she was all kewl bout it.
(Hey maybe I'll even post those mails here but i dunno if it would be apropriete(sp)).
We took a brake from each other didin't talk/chat in 2 or maybe 3 weeks and then we started chatting again. We're just friends now yes lol. Oh and she has a boy friend now and I'm happy for her. It's basicly a guy that she practicly known half of her life or maybe more so yah.. it's all good. And I'm single now officaly. Alone again. I'm not complaining though, cus I know there is a "star" for me somewhere out there. So clishe I know lol
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Post by CaryGrant on Jul 27, 2004 14:47:42 GMT -5
Thanks for the update, Nap. Sounds like you got lots out of the relationship and breakup, too! All the best...
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Post by Naptaq on Jul 27, 2004 14:50:56 GMT -5
yea absolutley man, it could be worse no problem i love to update this ;D
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