Post by dcguy18 on Apr 23, 2004 15:52:11 GMT -5
Ok me: Shy, keep eye contact only when have to,, and dont really have much of a social life Went to the supermarket bought some things and went to the checkout not noticing the cashier
Anyway when she got to me im didnt look at her and pretty much looking all around the store (I guess I dont like to be served really) asked me why Im acting strange/nervous so I pretty much had to tell her I have a shyness problem .
Next thing I know she get super nice with me telling me I to cute to be shy, Im a nice guy, etc (pretty much stroking my self esteem) then to look her in the eye I do shes a 7 to me and then started asking me if I go out a lot,(looking for a job right now to pay for school,and other than that a anime club to have some social contact) where do I live,(one of the most gangta part of town so I dont chill on the street there) do I have a girlfriend.(needless to say no)and why not ( I love the ladies but in the past when I had oppurtunity I never made a move to find where I stand and at the moment im not in school so my options are low)
After this she starts telling me she dosent have a BF at the moment(hinting?) but at that time I was done paying for my things but not before we got each other names and being told next time I come to look for her.
Now heres the problem. I dont know If she was being nice since before I was acting suspicious maybe "I'm about to robbed the supermarket suspicious". But calmed down and and started saying nice things on me with the you're such nice guy=friends ladder when I see her, but then again other times people dont care how i act when I check out even females my age.
So I was thinking next time I go shopping get in her line eye contact start being C+F and hit her with I want to see so and so next week and I know you like action movies so give me your number come and see it with me that friday 8.
But should I see her a few more times then ask her out or most likely she was just being nice and nothing more though knowing she wont she be?(It would be nice If can go on a social date with a girl to change the pace of going with the guys)
Anyway when she got to me im didnt look at her and pretty much looking all around the store (I guess I dont like to be served really) asked me why Im acting strange/nervous so I pretty much had to tell her I have a shyness problem .
Next thing I know she get super nice with me telling me I to cute to be shy, Im a nice guy, etc (pretty much stroking my self esteem) then to look her in the eye I do shes a 7 to me and then started asking me if I go out a lot,(looking for a job right now to pay for school,and other than that a anime club to have some social contact) where do I live,(one of the most gangta part of town so I dont chill on the street there) do I have a girlfriend.(needless to say no)and why not ( I love the ladies but in the past when I had oppurtunity I never made a move to find where I stand and at the moment im not in school so my options are low)
After this she starts telling me she dosent have a BF at the moment(hinting?) but at that time I was done paying for my things but not before we got each other names and being told next time I come to look for her.
Now heres the problem. I dont know If she was being nice since before I was acting suspicious maybe "I'm about to robbed the supermarket suspicious". But calmed down and and started saying nice things on me with the you're such nice guy=friends ladder when I see her, but then again other times people dont care how i act when I check out even females my age.
So I was thinking next time I go shopping get in her line eye contact start being C+F and hit her with I want to see so and so next week and I know you like action movies so give me your number come and see it with me that friday 8.
But should I see her a few more times then ask her out or most likely she was just being nice and nothing more though knowing she wont she be?(It would be nice If can go on a social date with a girl to change the pace of going with the guys)