Post by Bashfulme on May 31, 2004 9:43:53 GMT -5
I have a boyfriend and I think that I am in love with him, but I kind of like one of my guy friends as well. He doesn't have a girlfriend, and doesn't know that I like him, but I feel like letting him know, and I don't know why for sure, because I'm happy with the guy I'm with now. Maybe if I he tells me that he doesn't like me, and I'm pretty sure he has no interest in me in that way, then I'll be able to ignore the feelings that are developping for him because I'll know he doesn't like me for sure. Right now, sometimes I think he does kind of like me and sometimes I don't and feel that I'm only a friend to him. He is friends with my bf so he respects that we are going out and wouldn't make a move on me. However sometimes I feel a certain tension between us, like we're both feel attracted to each other, but we have a line we cannot cross. If he does like me, it will only make it frustrating for him if he knows it and I still decide to stay with the guy i'm with now.
Right now I'm far away from this guy I have feelings for (and of my boyfriend as well) so even if I did email him to tell him it would be a good time since we wouldn't have any uncomfortableness since we won't see each other for a while.
I tried to ignore the feelings before, and thought that they had disappeared for a while, but they haven't and I think about him even though I'm away from him, and I don't know what to do about it.
I also put into question my being in love with my boyfriend. I was sure before that I was, but if its so easy for me to develop feelings for someone else, I don't know I can really be in love with him.
I have no intention for now to act on what I feel toward this friend, even if I do find out he shares the same feelings as me, so I'm still not sure what I should do. Do I still tell him, or is it better to keep it to myself?
Right now I'm far away from this guy I have feelings for (and of my boyfriend as well) so even if I did email him to tell him it would be a good time since we wouldn't have any uncomfortableness since we won't see each other for a while.
I tried to ignore the feelings before, and thought that they had disappeared for a while, but they haven't and I think about him even though I'm away from him, and I don't know what to do about it.
I also put into question my being in love with my boyfriend. I was sure before that I was, but if its so easy for me to develop feelings for someone else, I don't know I can really be in love with him.
I have no intention for now to act on what I feel toward this friend, even if I do find out he shares the same feelings as me, so I'm still not sure what I should do. Do I still tell him, or is it better to keep it to myself?