Post by shygirl82 on Aug 1, 2004 20:36:10 GMT -5
I'm new to this site and I don't really know if what I have to say belongs here but here goes.
I've been shy all of my life so I haven't really dated much because of it. About three years ago I started my first relationship. We were friends for seven months and then started dating. We dated for three months before he left to join the army. We stayed together for about a year and a half through phone calls and email. And somewhere along the way we drifted apart. We never officially broke up or anything and I really don't know how or when we drifted apart. All of a sudden we weren't talking to each other as much anymore and then it stopped altogether. Well, he called me about a month ago and all the feelings we had for each other were still there and we are trying to get back together. I still really love him and he still loves me. Well, this morning he instant messaged me and told me that he had somthing to tell me that might make me change my mind about us. He told me that he might have a child on the way. He said he slept with this girl but it was only about sex and that she doesn't mean anything to him. The girl is due to have her baby in October and then he will find out if it is his or not. I don't know what to do. By the way I'm 22 years old and he's 29 years old. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I feel so betrayed even though all this happened when we weren't together. Thanks. Sorry it's so long.
I've been shy all of my life so I haven't really dated much because of it. About three years ago I started my first relationship. We were friends for seven months and then started dating. We dated for three months before he left to join the army. We stayed together for about a year and a half through phone calls and email. And somewhere along the way we drifted apart. We never officially broke up or anything and I really don't know how or when we drifted apart. All of a sudden we weren't talking to each other as much anymore and then it stopped altogether. Well, he called me about a month ago and all the feelings we had for each other were still there and we are trying to get back together. I still really love him and he still loves me. Well, this morning he instant messaged me and told me that he had somthing to tell me that might make me change my mind about us. He told me that he might have a child on the way. He said he slept with this girl but it was only about sex and that she doesn't mean anything to him. The girl is due to have her baby in October and then he will find out if it is his or not. I don't know what to do. By the way I'm 22 years old and he's 29 years old. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I feel so betrayed even though all this happened when we weren't together. Thanks. Sorry it's so long.