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Post by No one on Sept 6, 2004 13:49:20 GMT -5
I've liked this boy for ages, on and off, my looks have improved vastly over the years and we have grown a friendship. One time before he liked me but i rejected him becaue i didnt want to be played around, i thought he was just making me feel good about myself. Now that he likes me in that way he flirts with me and talks about us dealing with eachother, he says he likes other girls too though, and that hes not gunna lie. What do you think i should do, would giving him a taster of me make him like me even more and realise im the one for him now?
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Post by sushiboat on Sept 6, 2004 17:41:06 GMT -5
It sounds like he isn't interested in a relationship. He seems to want to be "friends with benefits." If that's true, I don't think that there is anything you can do to change his mind. You can either accept his terms or keep things as they are.
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Post by CaryGrant on Sept 7, 2004 11:29:20 GMT -5
Ditto what sushi said. A taste of you is all he wants, I'm afraid, and don't let him convince you that if he gets the taste maybe he'll only want you.
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Post by No one on Sept 7, 2004 11:46:16 GMT -5
So should i avoid gettin to like him even more, If so its sooo hard! I already did that today when he asked for a hug But he does have feelings and im not particulary lookin for a massive relationship!
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Post by sushiboat on Sept 7, 2004 16:56:10 GMT -5
If he wants something casual and you are happy with that, then go for it. Just don't build any castles in the air. He could have another whim at any moment, so you would have to be emotionally prepared to shrug and move on.
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Post by No one on Sept 9, 2004 11:37:04 GMT -5
i duno wot to do weneva he tries gettin near me i go shy and act like i dont like him, i act so cold but i like him! jus thought id tell u
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Post by CaryGrant on Sept 13, 2004 12:15:12 GMT -5
Sounds like you need to figure out what YOU really want. Would you be ok with a casual relationship, knowing he was seeing other girls and the relationship would probably end soon? Or are you hoping for something deeper?
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