Where to meet nice guys?

[johnnyo2004]

We all hang out the same place as the Arrogant ones, we all have them as friends, just look for the one that hangs back slightly.....thats me.....shy....but longing for that cute shy girl to smile at me!!!!!!!

[shygurl6069]

asolitarysoul said:

shygurl6069 said:

Mmmm..mayb I will. But, if u guyz live on the other side of the world don't expect me 2 chase after u

So what part of the world are you in?

SS
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Well, u live in Texas. I live in Jerzey, yep ur at the other side of the world 2 me.

[albetross]

crashandburn said:

jekawa said:

You know it! Nice definitely doesn't preclude spicy. Mmmm, spicy shy man.

That variety of edible man seems to abound on this site. Try chat; get 'em before they're all taken! ;D

Who's left

::raises hand:: I'm over here in my dark little corner

[albetross]

shygurl6069 said:

asolitarysoul said:

So what part of the world are you in?

SS
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Well, u live in Texas. I live in Jerzey, yep ur at the other side of the world 2 me.

I'm just south of u down here in Mary-land

[ASolitarySoul]

shygurl6069 said:

asolitarysoul said:

So what part of the world are you in?

SS
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Well, u live in Texas. I live in Jerzey, yep ur at the other side of the world 2 me.

It figures.

There aren't very many shy people in Texas - never mind shy girls.

... and the girls that ARE shy are all in relationships.

It looks like me and Russ are SOL.

Solitary Soul
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[wagnerr]

asolitarysoul said:

There aren't very many shy people in Texas - never mind shy girls.

... and the girls that ARE shy are all in relationships.

It looks like me and Russ are SOL.

Hey, stop don't pull me into your self imposed solitude, hehehe. They're are plenty of shy and non-shy girls in Texas! Not all of them are taken!

In fact, i prefer Texas girls because they don't seem to have such high expcetations of men in general. Well, compared to other women i've met from out of state or out of the country.

Anyway, everyone keeps on saying i'm handsome looking, so maybe i am after all. I just need to crush my own insecurities and summon enough guts to actually talk to some of these women in a romantic, non-friend perspective.

[shygurl6069]

asolitarysoul said:

shygurl6069 said:

Well, u live in Texas. I live in Jerzey, yep ur at the other side of the world 2 me.

It figures.

There aren't very many shy people in Texas - never mind shy girls.

... and the girls that ARE shy are all in relationships.

It looks like me and Russ are SOL.

Solitary Soul
Image Gallery -> www.silentshadowsrise.com/
All about me -> users3.ev1.net/~solitarysoul/
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Russ is right. Texas is a big state, ur bound 2 find ur soulmate. U jus hav 2 look in the right places, never give up hope Solitary Soul there's sum1 out there lookin 4 u. Search 4 her 2 ;D

I'm just south of u down here in Mary-land

Good 4 u I may b headin up there 4 college From which part do u reside lolz

[albetross]

Posted by shygurl6069 on Today at 3:29pm
Good 4 u I may b headin up there 4 college From which part do u reside lolz

I live in baltimore county. which college?

[ASolitarySoul]

shygurl6069 said:

Russ is right. Texas is a big state, ur bound 2 find ur soulmate.

What does Texas being a big state have to do with my chances for finding a soulmate?

As a matter of fact, it works against me. Texas has a lot of wide-open spaces
- and that is where I live. I live in a rural area - out in the middle of nowhere
- and I don't very often have any contact with anyone. I typically go for
several days without talking to anyone - and the people that I most often talk to
are salespeople (when I go into a town for supplies).

I know of several guys within my general vicinity who are a lot like myself:
They live alone - they don't have anyone - and a few of them lived their whole
lives like this - and died alone.

U jus hav 2 look in the right places,

Would you mind telling me where those "right places" might be?

never give up hope Solitary Soul there's sum1 out there lookin 4 u. Search 4 her 2 ;D

I doubt that very seriously.

albetross said:

Posted by shygurl6069 on Today at 3:29pm
Good 4 u I may b headin up there 4 college From which part do u reside lolz

I live in baltimore county. which college?

It looks like my "prophesy" is about to come true.

... and another shygurl has a relationship just fall into her lap.

Solitary Soul
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All about me -> users3.ev1.net/~solitarysoul/
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[ellis]

I've been looking for a place to hole up and establish my hermit cave where I can be free of human interaction except that which I can very carefully limit and control. Kind of like how I'm sitting at home alone on a friday night typing on the internet pathetically trying to make some contact but afraid to let it be freeform.

So maybe Texas has something to offer me too. I can find someplace to be by myself. Not a bad living all things considered.

[HybridMoment]

ellis said:

I've been looking for a place to hole up and establish my hermit cave where I can be free of human interaction except that which I can very carefully limit and control. Kind of like how I'm sitting at home alone on a friday night typing on the internet pathetically trying to make some contact but afraid to let it be freeform.

So maybe Texas has something to offer me too. I can find someplace to be by myself. Not a bad living all things considered.

Texas is a good location for doing this. We have quite a few "ghost towns", which were abandoned when larger highways were built leading people to towns closer to the roads. Others were abandoned military posts and agricultural areas that dissipated throughout time.

I've always liked the idea of going to live in some of these abandoned towns, but finding water and an adequate amount of food would be a problem. And I'd probably miss the internet too. The abandoned buildings are mostly in ruins also, so you'd probably have to build a shed or something to live in.

[pnoopiepnats]

ellis said:

I've been looking for a place to hole up and establish my hermit cave where I can be free of human interaction except that which I can very carefully limit and control. Kind of like how I'm sitting at home alone on a friday night typing on the internet pathetically trying to make some contact but afraid to let it be freeform.

So maybe Texas has something to offer me too. I can find someplace to be by myself. Not a bad living all things considered.

Texas had plenty of wide open spaces. The only thing I wouldn't like it having to go to town/city to get stuff and dealing with people with backward ways. It is like that here though. blah.

I think I have created my hermit cave to the best of my ability here and a lot of it is mental. The ability to tune other humans out. Where I live is good because there is never any reason to speak to any of my neighbors. It is mostly quiet and people leave you alone.

Here has a lot of diy services so there is not much need to interact with others.

[missflyygirl]

Where I meet guys:

School/College- Its a good place to meet guys because you surrounded by guys.

Grocery/Retail Store- Another place to see and meet guys. Especially go in the Electronics and Video games section. Or you can also go where the car stuff and sports section is at.

If you are a Cashier or Teller you meet alot of guys in that job. When I was a cashier, I was meeting alot of guys.

Concerts/Events and Clubs

[Knox]

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[ladyad]

I don't feel nice guys exist in my area. Colleges are not my idea of a place to be looking, they're not interested in the type of relationship I am interested in. I don't enjoy cat calls when walking places and I hate it when some guys try to race my car just to get my attention. Why are some guys so shallow?