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Post by shyaussiegal on Jul 2, 2006 5:45:17 GMT -5
Thought I'd take a peek in here... I would definitely like to know where the nice guys are hiding. Guys, what kind of places do you like to "hang out" at? Plenty of people are saying "im right here" but there are no real clues... so yeah, I need something a lil more obvious.
I DO know that pubs/clubs are not the place... it seems the blokes I do come across are either a) too drunk to remember you or b) are solely after sex (I have an explanation on the latter... but thats another post entirely).
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Post by urbanspaceman on Jul 2, 2006 5:52:29 GMT -5
I generally 'hang out' in my room. Which in itself is the problem. I don't really spend time anywhere really, other than at home. I walk to places, do what I need to, then go home again.
I used to go to pubs with old friends from school, but that's a very rare occurrance now, due to lack of friends and/or getting sick of being surrounded by people off their face due to alcohol.
I need to get out more.
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Post by wagnerr on Jul 9, 2006 20:58:46 GMT -5
Thought I'd take a peek in here... I would definitely like to know where the nice guys are hiding. Guys, what kind of places do you like to "hang out" at? Plenty of people are saying "im right here" but there are no real clues... so yeah, I need something a lil more obvious. I used to go to bookstores on weekend nights when i didn't have to work. In addition, i frequently go bowling as well.  |
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Post by randall on Jul 10, 2006 5:07:00 GMT -5
I generally 'hang out' in my room.. Same here. I rarely go out because it's hard to find things to do on your own. I do go to the movies if there's something good on but I always feel out of place. I'm always the only one on their own, everyone else is in a group or with a bf/gf. I normally sit at the back and hide in the darkness then leave quickly when it's over. Hm...I'm going to end this post now because it's starting to make me sound creepy. |
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Post by shyaussiegal on Jul 11, 2006 4:34:06 GMT -5
I rarely go out because it's hard to find things to do on your own. I do go to the movies if there's something good on but I always feel out of place. I'm always the only one on their own, everyone else is in a group or with a bf/gf. I normally sit at the back and hide in the darkness then leave quickly when it's over. Hm...I'm going to end this post now because it's starting to make me sound creepy. Heyyy I hide in movie theatres too when I go on my own! So... it can't be creepy ;D But yeah, it is difficult to find places to go and do things on your own without being out of place... I find it too awkward to sit in a bar/pub on my own (unless I'm entranced with some new live gig)... eating dinner in a restaurant by yourself - um, that's just creepy (the stares you get!). Oh, I do like going for walks or hiking on my own, which can be a good way to literally bump into new people. |
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Post by Samantha on Jul 11, 2006 6:36:22 GMT -5
Plenty of people are saying "im right here" but there are no real clues... I think they meant "I'm right here on this site, look here I am writing, this is me, I am nice, PM/email me if you want". Although I personally would prefer to think they wrote it in a John Inman "I'm free" fashion. |
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Post by iankuk on Jul 27, 2006 16:17:20 GMT -5
The "nice guys"? well we're all on this site, when ure in the bar and you see the guys at the bar all confident and cocky.....look again....ya see that guy who looks like nervous and quiet? Thats us!  go up to him, do him a favour PLEEEEASE!!! lol |
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Post by nats on Jul 27, 2006 16:50:45 GMT -5
The "nice guys"? well we're all on this site, when ure in the bar and you see the guys at the bar all confident and cocky.....look again....ya see that guy who looks like nervous and quiet? Thats us! go up to him, do him a favour PLEEEEASE!!! lol I've had a bad experience doing that- i was out one nite and getting chatted up by a guy, who was really confident and everything, i gave him my number and that. But before i saw him i noticed his friend looking relaly shy and quiet and was hoping he'd come up to me, later on after i'd met the confident one i bumped into the other one and we ended up talking and i kissed him. But it turned out that the one who was all quiet and shy was an idiot who expected me pretty much just to go home with him (and he was really shy), whereas the more outgoing one was really sweet and nice, i went out on a few dates with him and he was never pushy at all. |
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Post by iankuk on Jul 28, 2006 7:18:59 GMT -5
wow, yeah it sounds like that guy was more shy and.....*insert rude word!* lol okay, talking more me really, i tend to be the quiet one whereas all the guys im with are loud and proud. It'll be so quality if someone saw me, can read im shy and just sat and chatted. How cool a night would that be?!  |
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Post by Rosiemoore on Aug 6, 2006 17:03:58 GMT -5
I've just met a guy on a Christian website and he seems too pushy Just had our 3rd date and he was AAALLLL over me AAALLLL the time!!!!!!! I think he's sweet but felt really uncomfortable....... too clingy I thought!! What do others think, should I give him more of a chance or follow my gut feeling that it would not work? I mean, I am looking to fall in love and he seems to prefer my body over my brain!! |
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Post by zaab on Aug 6, 2006 17:22:22 GMT -5
I've just met a guy on a Christian website and he seems too pushy Just had our 3rd date and he was AAALLLL over me AAALLLL the time!!!!!!! I think he's sweet but felt really uncomfortable....... too clingy I thought!! What do others think, should I give him more of a chance or follow my gut feeling that it would not work? I mean, I am looking to fall in love and he seems to prefer my body over my brain!! You don't sound attracted to him and a fourth date will be seen as encouragement for his behaviour. I'm pretty sure you answered your own question already. Its time to move on. Just noticed where this is posted, Rosie, and you're probably better off creating a new thread in the "relationships" section so more people can respond to it. Its also a bit off topic. |
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Post by Rosiemoore on Aug 9, 2006 16:16:23 GMT -5
I've just met a guy on a Christian website and he seems too pushy Just had our 3rd date and he was AAALLLL over me AAALLLL the time!!!!!!! I think he's sweet but felt really uncomfortable....... too clingy I thought!! What do others think, should I give him more of a chance or follow my gut feeling that it would not work? I mean, I am looking to fall in love and he seems to prefer my body over my brain!! You don't sound attracted to him and a fourth date will be seen as encouragement for his behaviour. I'm pretty sure you answered your own question already. Its time to move on. Just noticed where this is posted, Rosie, and you're probably better off creating a new thread in the "relationships" section so more people can respond to it. Its also a bit off topic. LOL - I see what u mean!! Although I thought a Christian dating site should be a place to meet nice guys!!! I was attracted to him - he's really cute - but I still froze up coz of his attitude! I need a man who loves me for my brain first!!!  |
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Post by kf4yre on Sept 13, 2006 12:20:34 GMT -5
I'm bout like everybody else, never go out much. When I do it's to the bookstore or a movie. Being a ghost hunter I often go to graveyards. But, you don't find many girls at graveyards. At least any live ones. Guess this forum is as good a place as any to start. Look for someone close to you or local, start chatting and go from there. |
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Post by anonomie on Sept 19, 2006 20:21:24 GMT -5
under a rock lol (feels like it anyway)
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Post by dog on Sept 19, 2006 20:28:29 GMT -5
under a rock lol (feels like it anyway) There are many interesting things to find under rocks!!! So that's why we spend so much time under them. |
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go up to him, do him a favour PLEEEEASE!!! lol
