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Post by gym77zen on Feb 27, 2006 16:43:17 GMT -5
its really the truth nice guys finish last. Us nice guys r known as AFCs average frustrated chumps we look at woman and we put them up on pedestals we are too nice were too available we call too much we treat weomen with respect and we get pushed ot the side for the jerks.
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Post by KidCharlemagne on Feb 27, 2006 17:08:42 GMT -5
Depends how you define "nice". Do you think that being nice to women means they are required to take notice of you? And only not many people would like to be put up on a pedestal.
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Post by gym77zen on Feb 27, 2006 17:14:16 GMT -5
well its hard to explain women dont wnat guys that r nice in that they dont want someone thats desperate that they can easily get
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Post by MrNice on Feb 27, 2006 17:15:57 GMT -5
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Post by KidCharlemagne on Feb 27, 2006 17:44:41 GMT -5
Man, I hate that website. Nasty is just as bad as nice. Two wrongs don't make a right.
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Post by Paulinus on Feb 27, 2006 18:31:09 GMT -5
this subject never gets old does it? It certainly doesnt. Now if you'll excuse me I have a sudden urge to poke both my eyes out.
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Post by lennythegiant on Feb 27, 2006 21:15:42 GMT -5
this subject never gets old does it? Hey it keeps discussion going on this board. I'm all for it. I'm trying to be less of a nice guy (pushover). However, that doesn't mean be a dick. It's okay to be nice to people but don't go out of your way to do so.
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Post by griffins on Feb 28, 2006 0:16:37 GMT -5
its really the truth nice guys finish last. Us nice guys r known as AFCs average frustrated chumps we look at woman and we put them up on pedestals we are too nice were too available we call too much we treat weomen with respect and we get pushed ot the side for the jerks. AFC- gym77zen, have you been reading the PUA community?? Nice is okay, Doormat is no good
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Post by lonelyheart on Mar 5, 2006 2:29:23 GMT -5
I'm a nice guy but can be an asshole if I wanted to. Maybe you should try that.
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Post by spearmint on Mar 6, 2006 19:29:42 GMT -5
nice guys finish last, and nice girls finish last. Thus nice guys get nice girls so they win...
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Post by MrNice on Mar 6, 2006 19:40:30 GMT -5
yes!!! everyone is happy and no one is complaining life is indeed good
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Post by wagnerr on Mar 6, 2006 20:29:49 GMT -5
nice guys finish last, and nice girls finish last. Thus nice guys get nice girls so they win... Hey, this line of reasoning works well for me too!!! Nice girls are always preferable to heartless bitches.
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Post by reddragon on Mar 6, 2006 21:44:00 GMT -5
I'm a nice guy but can be an asshole if I wanted to. Maybe you should try that. Well according to a friend of mine who is quite successful with women "The sad truth is that the WORSE you treat them the more they LIKE it" My point is that maybe just maybe the female of the species is just all screwed up and there the crazy ones NOT the nice guys
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Post by arianna7 on Mar 7, 2006 13:10:53 GMT -5
Nice girls are always preferable to heartless bitches. Heartless is almost always bad. It's the same with women as with men. Most women fall somewhere in between being Nice (as in being pushovers, or tending to be agreeable no matter what the situation calls for) and being consistently bitchy. And I'd argue that there are some situations where bitchy can be good. Reddragon, I think the females of the species you are referring to are actually aliens from another planet. On their home planet they are not screwed up or crazy. But seriously, maybe you should interact with different women, or else learn about women from different sources than the ones you are using. Your views might change with your experiences. Personally I like being treated kindly and with respect. My boyfriend is generally considered to be very nice.
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Post by reddragon on Mar 7, 2006 22:35:03 GMT -5
Reddragon, I think the females of the species you are referring to are actually aliens from another planet. On their home planet they are not screwed up or crazy. But seriously, maybe you should interact with different women, or else learn about women from different sources than the ones you are using. Your views might change with your experiences. Personally I like being treated kindly and with respect. My boyfriend is generally considered to be very nice. You may be right. However its not just the one source that I refer to. The fact is that everyone says the worse thing a guy can do in a relationship is to be too nice. Even the female friends I know are very open about it, If a guy wont stand up to them they will either take advantage of him or leave him. I see it every day, nice guys struggle for dates while jerks have to fight the women off. I know you said you like being treated kindly but did you ever consider that maybe you are just different? As I have said before people tend to say one thing and then do another, I try to judge by actions not words.
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