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Post by Twice-Shy on Apr 14, 2003 13:42:54 GMT -5
When I'm having a bad day and my shyness is really getting me down, I can soemtimes take it out on othe rpeople in my family. I was wondering does anybody else do the same?
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Post by moogle on Apr 14, 2003 14:24:14 GMT -5
it isn't my shyness that does that to me, it's my depression (which is worse). last night, in fact, my cat was kneading my lap and my boyfriend asked how come he never sits in his lap and i coldly said 'because he hates you'.
i didn't mean it, i was just down, and it's easy to lash out at people when you feel that way. the only thing you can do is apoligize and mean it.
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Post by NewOrleansLady on Apr 14, 2003 19:55:39 GMT -5
I get mad at myself for not speaking up when I feel like I am being taken advantage of or just being treated poorly. I have a tendency to take it out on my husband, since I am comfortable with him, I will snap at him just to make myself feel better. It's wrong and i need to apologize to him for that and explain why i do it.
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Post by unionjackattack86 on Apr 15, 2003 3:08:18 GMT -5
I wouldn't say I take it out on people but if i'm ever depressed, there's no point in me talking to people because I never feel like it and just have no enthusiasm and leave conversation up to them.
And then if they ask whats wrong I never usually tell them and they snap at me for being awkward.
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