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Post by Medici on Jan 28, 2005 14:54:12 GMT -5
That is fraudulent and WRONG. Like push-up bras, or those little jelly things they have that you put 'round your boobers and they look bigger. They should be illegal. Could sue for false advertising...
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Derrick
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Post by Derrick on Feb 1, 2005 19:46:55 GMT -5
It probably depends on the person himself.. is he religious, moral, introverted, extroverted? The easiest way a women could let me know she's interested for me personally is to make eye contact, or just come up and tell me. If I can tell she's interested already, a change in the way she dresses won't sway me any more then normal, but that's just me, and I'm pretty .. unorthodox.
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Post by shyflirt on Feb 3, 2005 8:21:45 GMT -5
It probably depends on the person himself.. is he religious, moral, introverted, extroverted? The easiest way a women could let me know she's interested for me personally is to make eye contact, or just come up and tell me. If I can tell she's interested already, a change in the way she dresses won't sway me any more then normal, but that's just me, and I'm pretty .. unorthodox. he's on the introverted/shy side of the spectrum from what i can see. don't know the rest yet. the reason i asked this question is because i've seen so much on this board about shy guys needing to be 'hit over the head with a board' to believe a woman is interested in them, wanting women to 'flirt, use feminine wiles, dress sexy, etc.' (but then there's also alot of comments about how attractive women scare them/intimidate them/make them freeze up/etc - so it's confusing.) anyway, like i said, even when i do try it just seems like it gets attention from the wrong guys, guys i really don't want to deal with at all.
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Post by Jarous on Feb 4, 2005 2:30:13 GMT -5
Forgive me, but it all looks absurd to me. You dress yourself to attract attention and then feel bad when you get it? Clearly you can't have both attention and quiet privacy at the same time ... you need to sacrifice one - so choose wisely.
Oh and by the way, I think this is one of the most unlucky ways how to show a shy man that you care...
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Post by shyflirt on Feb 4, 2005 3:59:48 GMT -5
Forgive me, but it all looks absurd to me. You dress yourself to attract attention and then feel bad when you get it? Clearly you can't have both attention and quiet privacy at the same time ... you need to sacrifice one - so choose wisely. Oh and by the way, I think this is one of the most unlucky ways how to show a shy man that you care... well, la dee da! so sorry...to offend...but you're ignoring my point... and about that last comment...huh?
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Post by Jarous on Feb 4, 2005 4:49:58 GMT -5
but you're ignoring my point... Is it so? Then I guess I don't understand your point... You mind the unwanted attention and wonder if the shy guy even notices, not? You'll simply have to live with the fact that there's no way how to show your partiality just to one select person by dolling up - everyone with eyes will notice. Your second problem is that noticing is obviously not enough - and yeah, he might be the type you'll have to hit with a board...
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Post by Max Power on Feb 4, 2005 10:58:24 GMT -5
if a guy looks at you and gives you a nice smile, that's cool... I am so glad you just said that. Next time I'll try to do this to a lady I find attractive and hope I don't gross her out.
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Post by wagnerr on Feb 17, 2005 14:53:48 GMT -5
Well, Shy Flirt, if you're still there, don't get all "dolled up." Like you say, you get unwanted attention from other guys. Well, one of the things that really got me going for a cute girl was her smile. Wow! All it took was for a smile or two from a girl and i'd be pondering this over in my head for the entire week or so. Another thing; touch the guy. When a girl touches a guy, that triggers instant attention to her. Just touch his hand or arm; the arm probably. Then give him the smile. Then walk away. then turn around again and smile. This combination worked well on me, let me tell you! My gf did this, and good lord i nearly went mad with desire for her! I coudln't wait to take her out that night! Key thing: the Smile. and give the smial repeatedly, directed solely to him. Oh, and make eye contact.
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