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Post by Paulinus on Sept 10, 2005 5:21:30 GMT -5
We don't all have someone to talk to on IM, e-mail and phone and go visit on holidays though, Pnats. Even if you don't like going out much, it's still nice to have a special someone in your life. It's nice too when your weekdays and weekends don't end up all blurring into each other because you never have anything special to look forward to, anyone special to look forward to seeing. Of course it is great to have a special someone to spend weekends with but I am not sure what that has to do with going out on weekends? Maybe because you feel you should be out at weekends to give yourself more of a chance of finding that special someone.
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Post by saynothing on Sept 10, 2005 19:45:53 GMT -5
You guys calling yourselves losers on this thread shouldn't be. In my eyes a loser is someone like a thief or bully. I wish I had someone to go out with at times as well. Don't knock yourselves just because you haven't.
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Post by albetross on Sept 10, 2005 20:18:45 GMT -5
You guys calling yourselves losers on this thread shouldn't be. In my eyes a loser is someone like a thief or bully. I wish I had someone to go out with at times as well. Don't knock yourselves just because you haven't. I say it cause it's true, my life sucks yet I make no effort to try and change it. I sit on my butt and stare at this computer screen or the tv and that is my life outside of work
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Post by saynothing on Sept 10, 2005 20:41:18 GMT -5
You guys calling yourselves losers on this thread shouldn't be. In my eyes a loser is someone like a thief or bully. I wish I had someone to go out with at times as well. Don't knock yourselves just because you haven't. I say it cause it's true, my life sucks yet I make no effort to try and change it. I sit on my butt and stare at this computer screen or the tv and that is my life outside of work I personally would not think of you as a loser for that. Us shy people have to work hard to have a life that doesn't suck. Try and find a hobby. God , here I am giving advice but I still don't take my own.
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Post by lily on Sept 10, 2005 21:16:13 GMT -5
face it, sam cooke said it all - "it's another saturday night and i ain't got nobody".
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Post by albetross on Sept 10, 2005 22:30:32 GMT -5
face it, sam cooke said it all - "it's another saturday night and i ain't got nobody". i got some money cause i just got paid hoy i wish i had some chick to talk to in an awful way
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Post by nameless on Sept 11, 2005 16:27:30 GMT -5
unfortunately this has become a regular occurance in my life, i really want to get out and meet some people but its never as easy as it seems!
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Post by ellis on Sept 11, 2005 17:50:34 GMT -5
If you're not into drinking and going out to bars I think the whole Friday night thing is lost on you while you're young at least. There are a number of years where those activities seem like the only option - other than going to the movies I guess. I hope when I get older that some other things open up - things that don't necessarily involve so much drinking. But I have to depend on myself. If I do nothing Friday, I'm happy about it. If I do something, I'm happy about it.
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Post by BrownKeys on Sept 11, 2005 22:14:07 GMT -5
While all the other kids on campus are out getting to know each other and becoming such great friends, drinking, smoking, and having loads of sex, I sit in my dorm room writing this message to you. Sadly, this is the highlight of my night. I still have not hit it off with anyone here, thus I have no way of making plans with anyone. Say, I think I may also be a HUGE loser. Add me to the list! Sorry, nobody who gets to go to Brown University gets to call themselves a loser. How did you know that I go to Brown?!?!
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Post by BrownKeys on Sept 11, 2005 22:22:48 GMT -5
If you're not into drinking and going out to bars I think the whole Friday night thing is lost on you while you're young at least. This is particularly true for me. I don't drink, smoke, have crazy sex with all sorts of people or party. And I can't dance to save my life. I've been refered to as a goody two shoes my whole life. People just take one good look at me and say, 'you look so innocent.' It's very annoying and prevents me from doing more outgoing things.
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Post by wagnerr on Sept 11, 2005 22:26:32 GMT -5
Sorry, nobody who gets to go to Brown University gets to call themselves a loser. How did you know that I go to Brown?!?! Probably because of your name. Either that, or you mentioned it somewhere else here, i guess. In any case, getting into a tough university is quite an accomplishment. However, i'm sure it doesn't feel that way at the time. As for me, my weekend nights are always either at work, or sitting at home by myself.
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Post by wagnerr on Sept 11, 2005 22:29:03 GMT -5
If you're not into drinking and going out to bars I think the whole Friday night thing is lost on you while you're young at least. This is particularly true for me. I don't drink, smoke, have crazy sex with all sorts of people or party. And I can't dance to save my life. I've been refered to as a goody two shoes my whole life. People just take one good look at me and say, 'you look so innocent.' It's very annoying and prevents me from doing more outgoing things. Yep, i get that too. If people only knew the real me they wouldn't say stuff like that. I'm a raging beast inside, and it's all due to frustration. Add to this, people sense that i'm an angry person, and it makes my life even worse. Why do people get automatcially offended when you become angry or irritated?
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Post by ellis on Sept 11, 2005 22:58:22 GMT -5
My opinion, because it threatens the whole system. Everybody's supposed to be happy. If not, its their own problem. The system has to work. Happy joy!
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Post by lily on Sept 12, 2005 1:15:23 GMT -5
Sorry, nobody who gets to go to Brown University gets to call themselves a loser. How did you know that I go to Brown?!?! You posted how you picked your screen name a while back.
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