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Post by 2_Shy_4_My_Own_Good on Jul 16, 2004 22:25:11 GMT -5
i absolutley hate it!! i have about 7 friends 2 in person 5 online! i can't even talk on the phone for pete's sake! i get bad grades in class for lack of participation! i don't want to go out of my house!! i am only 13! in class they call on me anyway and my voice gets all cracky and jumpy and my hand and legs shake and i get sweaty! i can't even talk to relatives without processing every word i say in my head! uuurgh! one of my online friends says i'm the queen of shy people! she told me to stop hiding from the world and get out of my shell! i don't know how to!!! can anybody relate to any of this???
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Post by Guy on Jul 20, 2004 0:44:46 GMT -5
hey kid dont trip ... turn your computer off ...turn your TV off ... reading is good (like for homework) but don't waste to much time reading your at an age where you need a lot of excersice to help your body develop on time go outside get some fresh air what can you possibily do outside by yourself? well run a mile at the park at least once a week the more good habits you have the better your self esteem Sounds like you need some male advice check this site out ---> askmen.com add it to your favorites ...and don't analyze everything especially when your around family try to experiece life don't process it ...for you and everybody in here check this out doubleyourdating.com...and participate in class even if you don;t want too
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Post by Victor on Jul 20, 2004 5:46:57 GMT -5
i absolutley hate it!! i have about 7 friends 2 in person 5 online! i can't even talk on the phone for pete's sake! i get bad grades in class for lack of participation! i don't want to go out of my house!! i am only 13! in class they call on me anyway and my voice gets all cracky and jumpy and my hand and legs shake and i get sweaty! i can't even talk to relatives without processing every word i say in my head! uuurgh! one of my online friends says i'm the queen of shy people! she told me to stop hiding from the world and get out of my shell! i don't know how to!!! can anybody relate to any of this??? Sorry, I can't relate. If I count all the friends I've ever had in my 23 years of life they wouldn't add up to 7. At the moment, I have 0 friends. Other from that, I guess I can relate to most of that. I'm social phobic. |
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Post by Guy on Jul 20, 2004 18:46:23 GMT -5
We probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of us if we could know how seldom they do.
- Olin Miller
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Post by 2_Shy_4_My_Own_Good on Jul 20, 2004 19:56:07 GMT -5
thanks guy but i'm a girl ;D
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Post by strawberrysweetie on Aug 2, 2004 2:02:38 GMT -5
i absolutley hate it!! i have about 7 friends 2 in person 5 online! i can't even talk on the phone for pete's sake! i get bad grades in class for lack of participation! i don't want to go out of my house!! i am only 13! in class they call on me anyway and my voice gets all cracky and jumpy and my hand and legs shake and i get sweaty! i can't even talk to relatives without processing every word i say in my head! uuurgh! one of my online friends says i'm the queen of shy people! she told me to stop hiding from the world and get out of my shell! i don't know how to!!! can anybody relate to any of this??? Yeah, I can relate. Like Victor, though, as of now I would say that I have 0 friends. I never do anything with anybody and the one so-called friend that I had since the 2nd grade is so different now. She doesn't seem to care about anything about me. It makes me feel worthless. I always feel so alone, and no one around me seems to understand. I also have trouble on the phone, but it's not so bad for me. I always sound stupid, but it's better than in person. I also can't participate in class, but I've been lucky enough so far that it hasn't really affected my grade. I also get really nervous in class when I get called on or even when I think about getting called on. I can feel my cheeks turn red, my heart beat really fast, and sometimes I feel like I can't even breathe. Oh, and I can totally and completely relate to the whole talking to your relatives. I hate going to see my cousins and aunts and uncles because I never know what to say to them and feel so stupid when I'm the only one not talking at the table. I feel like I should at least be able to talk to them, but I just can't. I know that they notice too and I think they think that I don't like them or something. My uncle even asked me if I had a problem with them one time and I had no idea what to tell him, because he's like one of the most outgoing people. Anyway, I feel your pain. Hang in there...you're not the only one! |
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Post by 2_Shy_4_My_Own_Good on Aug 3, 2004 12:49:48 GMT -5
thanks. ;D
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