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Post by guy on Jan 11, 2005 22:53:27 GMT -5
well heres the situation, i like this girl and i know she likes me back, i have known her for a while but whenever i see her i dont know what to say, ill say hey how you doin and all but then ill just freeze up. it becomes awkward and i become speechless i know that i can have this girl but i just need help!!!
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Post by who on Jan 15, 2005 2:41:04 GMT -5
well heres the situation, i like this girl and i know she likes me back, i have known her for a while but whenever i see her i dont know what to say, ill say hey how you doin and all but then ill just freeze up. it becomes awkward and i become speechless i know that i can have this girl but i just need help!!! don't know if it's any consolation, but you're not alone man. |
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Post by meow on Jan 19, 2005 4:06:45 GMT -5
well heres the situation, i like this girl and i know she likes me back, i have known her for a while but whenever i see her i dont know what to say, ill say hey how you doin and all but then ill just freeze up. it becomes awkward and i become speechless i know that i can have this girl but i just need help!!! if you know she likes you, that is a big advantage. you know she'll probably accept anything you suggest. maybe you could say what you want to say before you freeze up? like just say 'hi, i was wondering if you'd like to do something next weekend?' just as soon as you see her. maybe that will keep the awkwardness from setting in and making you freeze up. if you find yourself unable to think on your feet, you could just say something like 'let's see what's playing at the movies and go to something we'd both like'....'let's talk about it tomorrow'... you don't have to decide everything on the spot. keep it casual. anything you can do to take the pressure off yourself should help you to stay more relaxed. |
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Post by TJ on Jan 26, 2005 10:06:29 GMT -5
well heres the situation, i like this girl and i know she likes me back, i have known her for a while but whenever i see her i dont know what to say, ill say hey how you doin and all but then ill just freeze up. it becomes awkward and i become speechless i know that i can have this girl but i just need help!!! What kind of help do you want guy? Tell us and we will help you. |
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Post by WayoftheBraves on Jan 31, 2005 13:15:26 GMT -5
All I'll say is, you're lucky. It's rare shy guys like a girl that likes them back.
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Post by serginho on Jul 21, 2008 13:52:55 GMT -5
There is a better way to 'ask her out' than doing what Meow suggested. Instead, say, "How would you like to do _____(whatever activity you intended to do that weekend day) Saturday at 11:00?". That way, she gets an idea of what you're about. Plus, women like to be led, esp. by confident (or at least confident appearing) men.
She may say yes or no, no guarantees, but you tip the odds in your favor the more specific you are.
Good luck with it.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jul 21, 2008 21:23:41 GMT -5
...women like to be led... um...ya...  |
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gaia
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Post by gaia on Jul 22, 2008 4:58:33 GMT -5
January 2005. Wish people would stop resurrecting old threads...
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Post by sadrabbit on Sept 26, 2008 9:51:13 GMT -5
lol! na buts its ok... people do read sometimes =) The most important thing we can learn from this is that, if we sometimes feel its hard to talk to people, we can try textinng her on the phone or write her a note, and tell her your difficulties.=)
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Post by shyguy83 on Sept 26, 2008 10:50:02 GMT -5
I was exactly the same back in the day! Numerous girls I liked, nothing ever happened because I didn't let it happen. I'm lucky I managed to get out of that rut as I began to feel more comfortable with myself and who I was. One way I became better with general chat was to talk to anyone that I met about anyhing and everything. Luckily I had a job with a customer service role so I was frequently serving people. I'm by no means cured yet but am a lot better than I was 5 or so years ago.
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Post by gals on Dec 2, 2010 3:39:28 GMT -5
Being the guy, you have to make the 1st move.
Do you personally know her? You can start with baby steps like saying hello, hi and smile. Make her warm up to you. Build rapport first.
If you got mutual friends, ask them to send some feelers to the girl you like. Somehow, you have to do something other than looking at each other.
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