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Post by HouseLv on May 24, 2008 19:21:07 GMT -5
Tonight i went to a lounge bar with a friend of mine
and he told me that he know a girl there that is working as a barwoman.We went there and my friend talked to her but he did not indroduced us.Then we ordered our drinks and after a while she came and introduced her self to me!!!!
I don't wan't to tell you much but in a way i felt that i met the girl of my dreams ...She was exactly as i imagine the girl of my dreams beautiful (But not anything fancy) smart and she is the only girl that i met that she talked (not with me with my friend) more that 2 minutes about music!!! ;D
When i was at the toilet she invite my friend tomorow to a beach party.When we left my friend asked me if i wan't to go there and i told him that i'll think about it.
Even i do not believe that i'll never do something because i am too shy i think i'll go there and you never know.What do you think?
(Sorry for my English)
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Post by gaia on May 24, 2008 20:21:47 GMT -5
She may have just introduced herself simply because to talk to your friend and not acknowledge you at all would have been rude. I feel like such a bitch for saying this, but don't get your hopes up too much. I'm sorry.. it's just when it's put in it's context, to me it seems nothing more than a friendly gesture.  There is no harm in asking her out to see what she says if that's what you want to do. Though I think as a barwoman she'd be used to guys asking her out a lot, and so might not really give you the answer you want to hear. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 25, 2008 10:47:03 GMT -5
Tonight i went to a lounge bar with a friend of mine and he told me that he know a girl there that is working as a barwoman.We went there and my friend talked to her but he did not indroduced us.Then we ordered our drinks and after a while she came and introduced her self to me!!!! I don't wan't to tell you much but in a way i felt that i met the girl of my dreams ...She was exactly as i imagine the girl of my dreams beautiful (But not anything fancy) smart and she is the only girl that i met that she talked (not with me with my friend) more that 2 minutes about music!!! ;D When i was at the toilet she invite my friend tomorow to a beach party.When we left my friend asked me if i wan't to go there and i told him that i'll think about it. Even i do not believe that i'll never do something because i am too shy i think i'll go there and you never know.What do you think? (Sorry for my English) of course you should go. there's nothing to think about. go. |
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Post by Bodhi on May 25, 2008 11:18:04 GMT -5
First off, there is no way you can tell she is the girl of your dreams from this one encounter. Its not good to have such incredibly high expectations, it will only make you really nervous, and raise your anxiety level around her to astronomical highs. Try to think of her as just a girl, one you may want to date, but nothing all that special. I know that's hard to do sometimes, and I've fallen under the dream girl spell before. But, I've found it only leads to major stress and ineffective dealings with the girl. Best is to try your hardest to think of her as just a normal girl, a human being like yourself, not a goddess or dream girl.
Good luck!
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Post by Twizilo on May 26, 2008 0:58:49 GMT -5
You can believe that shit if you want too! lmao. I actually discovered somethng. You actually DO have to get to know a woman first because...TRUST ME! there's a possiblity she could be nothing you expected. Take my advice man..you betta get to know her first. Don't let a few words and a nice ass fool you! Women are some tricky creatures lol. But if you think she's da one...get her email address...Not her phone number because you know damn well you're not gonna call but on the other hand...email address always comes in handy.
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 26, 2008 1:04:51 GMT -5
I actually discovered somethng. You actually DO have to get to know a woman first because...TRUST ME! there's a possiblity she could be nothing you expected. of course, that can be a good thing. she might be even better than you expected.  |
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Post by gaia on May 26, 2008 12:39:51 GMT -5
I actually discovered somethng. You actually DO have to get to know a woman first because...TRUST ME! there's a possiblity she could be nothing you expected. of course, that can be a good thing. she might be even better than you expected. The big penis comment... the sage advice that you "have get to know a woman first" advice... why isn't he here more often, eh Sweetpea? |
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 26, 2008 12:42:55 GMT -5
of course, that can be a good thing. she might be even better than you expected. The big penis comment... the sage advice that you "have get to know a woman first" advice... why isn't he here more often, eh Sweetpea? yeah, it's confusing. does he mean he wants to get to know her with his big penis? maybe he'll come back and clarify all these questions for us. |
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Post by gaia on May 26, 2008 12:53:57 GMT -5
The big penis comment... the sage advice that you "have get to know a woman first" advice... why isn't he here more often, eh Sweetpea? yeah, it's confusing. does he mean he wants to get to know her with his big penis? maybe he'll come back and clarify all these questions for us. Makes me wish I was that 'her'.  |
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 26, 2008 13:17:00 GMT -5
yeah, it's confusing. does he mean he wants to get to know her with his big penis? maybe he'll come back and clarify all these questions for us. Makes me wish I was that 'her'. and we have a taker for the big penis! wow. see how easy that was? |
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Post by gaia on May 26, 2008 18:20:06 GMT -5
Makes me wish I was that 'her'. and we have a taker for the big penis! wow. see how easy that was? You have a taker for just about anything, here. 
Anywho, back to the original post.. I think that you should take notice of what Bodhi & Twizilo are saying - do not have unrealistic expectations of her ("the girl of my dreams"). It won't do any favours for your level of anxiety should you chose to approach her, and also - she's just human at the end of the day.. likely to have her own faults. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 26, 2008 22:23:31 GMT -5
and we have a taker for the big penis! wow. see how easy that was? You have a taker for just about anything, here.
Anywho, back to the original post.. I think that you should take notice of what Bodhi & Twizilo are saying - do not have unrealistic expectations of her ("the girl of my dreams"). It won't do any favours for your level of anxiety should you chose to approach her, and also - she's just human at the end of the day.. likely to have her own faults. except me of course...since i'm a goddess and all. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 27, 2008 9:17:37 GMT -5
yeah you should probably wait a but before thinking that. it sux. cuz some people will show you attention but it may not mean anything to them or not that much. and that is hard to read cuz you want it to be something more. it sux. but you cant really control how other people feel. i hate that! but, it is true. on the other hand, being able to control how other people feel would be really creepy. |
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Post by gaia on May 27, 2008 12:56:41 GMT -5
yeah you should probably wait a but before thinking that. it sux. cuz some people will show you attention but it may not mean anything to them or not that much. and that is hard to read cuz you want it to be something more. it sux. but you cant really control how other people feel. i hate that! but, it is true. on the other hand, being able to control how other people feel would be really creepy. It's called Witchcraft.. nothing creepy about it! Just incredibly bad karma. |
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Post by HouseLv on May 27, 2008 15:49:42 GMT -5
Sorry i have to tell you that the night i wrote this post i was little drunk
so the next day i couldn't go to the beach party anyway because i had a huge migraine
Off course i'm not so naive as i sound there but to tell you the truth i still think that girl have something that shakes me...
I hope or better I’ll try to meet her again and who knows maybe at the end she is the one...
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