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Post by Twizilo on Dec 3, 2008 23:58:31 GMT -5
I thought the only people who got numbers were social outgoing dudes. I've never gotten any numbers. How are you getting yours? Befriend a girl who happens to like you, who is also outgoing enough to hand out her digits. She gave me her number because I'm shy, she knew if she didn't take matters into her own hands then nothing would happen. I was very flattered, and the way she did it was way cute, she was all nervous and embarrassed, and couldn't keep from looking down and smiling, ahh it was so cute, but regardless of that she's normally an extremely outgoing girl. Anyway, I knew her pretty well and already knew she wasn't my type, so I didn't do anything with it, and we havn't spoken since...  WHATT! and you didn't do anything with it. Why not? I mean if a girl is not the LEAST bit into you most likely she is not going to just hand out her number. I mean even a simple smile and say hey to her. It's not that hard. TRUST ME! Simplicity makes a big impact. I'm a very quiet guy and I'm surprised how many girls have liked me. Came to me and told me themselves. Although she's different because she's outgoing you still have to remember variety makes the world go 'round. Let this be your drive. Don't sleep on my words or you will die  |
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Post by crimeclub on Dec 4, 2008 0:40:22 GMT -5
There's alot more that goes into a relationship than a person being attracted to another person. We are just completely different, her goals in life are different than mine, she's a party animal and I'm not, she was getting into drugs at the time, and she was much more into me than I was her. Really my attraction to her was physical, she was definately a cutie, but that's as far as it went for me. Friendship worked out great untill she made it all awkward by avoiding me afterwards.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 4, 2008 1:01:57 GMT -5
Befriend a girl who happens to like you, who is also outgoing enough to hand out her digits. She gave me her number because I'm shy, she knew if she didn't take matters into her own hands then nothing would happen. I was very flattered, and the way she did it was way cute, she was all nervous and embarrassed, and couldn't keep from looking down and smiling, ahh it was so cute, but regardless of that she's normally an extremely outgoing girl. Anyway, I knew her pretty well and already knew she wasn't my type, so I didn't do anything with it, and we havn't spoken since... WHATT! and you didn't do anything with it. Why not? I mean if a girl is not the LEAST bit into you most likely she is not going to just hand out her number. I mean even a simple smile and say hey to her. It's not that hard. TRUST ME! Simplicity makes a big impact. I'm a very quiet guy and I'm surprised how many girls have liked me. Came to me and told me themselves. Although she's different because she's outgoing you still have to remember variety makes the world go 'round. Let this be your drive. Don't sleep on my words or you will die lol, that's funny.  yeah, we don't all have to be identical. it's okay if some people are more outgoing than others. i can live with that. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 4, 2008 1:04:35 GMT -5
There's alot more that goes into a relationship than a person being attracted to another person. We are just completely different, her goals in life are different than mine, she's a party animal and I'm not, she was getting into drugs at the time, and she was much more into me than I was her. Really my attraction to her was physical, she was definately a cutie, but that's as far as it went for me. Friendship worked out great untill she made it all awkward by avoiding me afterwards. yeah, i wouldn't be interested in a party animal who's getting into drugs either. i've known too many people who've gone down that road and never come back.  |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 4, 2008 1:09:02 GMT -5
well, i guess i should tell you how this turned out. the guy i gave my number to didn't call. when i saw him again he gave me a very polite brushoff. apparently i misinterpreted friendliness for flirting. oh well, no harm done. hopefully he was flattered by the fact that i liked him. at least i don't have to wonder 'what would have happened if...?' forever.
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Post by crimeclub on Dec 4, 2008 1:17:54 GMT -5
Hey at least you made the effort, just make sure you don't let it discourage you! Keep trying and the effort will have to eventually pay off at some point.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 4, 2008 1:22:33 GMT -5
Hey at least you made the effort, just make sure you don't let it discourage you! Keep trying and the effort will have to eventually pay off at some point. hopefully before i fall into my coffin. but thanks for the encouragement. i knew it was too good to be true anyways. he's too good looking. |
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Post by cyclopse on Dec 6, 2008 23:49:38 GMT -5
i was at a bar a couple of months ago and i girl who was hammered beyond belief was hitting on me.. She gave me her business card.. i never called her. I wasnt attracted to her but at the same time she was so hammered she probably didnt even remember me.
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yeah, we don't all have to be identical. it's okay if some people are more outgoing than others. i can live with that.