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Post by MrNice on Apr 29, 2009 11:08:49 GMT -5
I bet you consider yourself a nice guy too
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jai
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Post by jai on Apr 29, 2009 17:25:10 GMT -5
I don't consider, I know I'm a nice guy. I don't play with women's emotions and I don't expect them to play with mine. I respect respectable women.
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Post by Naptaq on Apr 30, 2009 17:41:11 GMT -5
Naptaq --------------- Let's try this: Farouche, you based your entire argument on crap, so you need to replace the crap with not-crap for your argument to be valid in a debate.
That sounds pretty unimpressive and reminds me of the "you don't understand" which is, a lot of time, a code word for "Please, you must see it my way" You really do find yourself impressive, don't you? This is all an act. I'm really a depressed method actor. lol I have no idea what you're talking about. This pithy. 2 : having substance and point : tersely cogent Which was refering to this pithy responce: "A lot of people don't want to be used like a piece of furniture and then thrown away." The word you're searching for is nitpicking. Nice sarcasm. But hey, I thought you're used to my smug-self by now. Yeah sure. Because promiscuity is the domain of altruistic people? Not buying it. "In pursuit of hedonism" is especially true for those who haven't been abused. That's a very good point. But if there is lying involved then that's bad, I think we can agree on that. I never implied that. If you mean modern-developed-world young people that are leaning liberal, then yes. Promiscuity and overating are the concequence of unresolved emotional issues. Both are unhealthy. If you mean sex as in sex in a marriage then I put a stamp of approval on it. If you mean promiscuity, having sex with strangers, then I say no, because of the bad concequences to society in spreading of diseases and AIDS.. not to mention unwanted pregnancies. Again, to clarify, lying is not present at all promiscious people and since we don't have statistics on that, it's my educated guess that some people lie to get into bed. And I'm not just talking about married cheaters here. I have no interest in debating the New Testament vs. Old Testament here.
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Post by madiocre on May 6, 2009 1:06:59 GMT -5
Slut can be applied to men and women, not just women. A slut is someONE who has sex with someone which is meaningless and will never go anywhere. Now male and female sluts can have their meaningless sex however much they want but in my veiw I don't degrade sluts, I just dislike them because their moral views on sex is just gone out the window. The point is it can be applied but never seriously is applied to men. google the word slut in images and what do get ...pictures of women. Funny how the circulation of the word slut produces sluts when you think about it . Think about this situation Why would a said slut be dishonest and mislead a man into bed with the promises of more when an honest "i want sex but nothing more" would work....well maybe it could be she dosn't want to be called a dirty slut/whore/hoe for wanting " meaningless" sex .
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 6, 2009 1:55:50 GMT -5
for a great depiction of a male slut, watch 'the libertine'.
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 6, 2009 9:55:37 GMT -5
Why would a said slut be dishonest and mislead a man into bed with the promises of more when an honest "i want sex but nothing more" would work.... i know it seems anti-intuitive, but it does happen. bait and switch with sex as the bait is extremely common in all levels of society. sometimes even in the places where you might least expect it. ever heard of flirty fishing? it's a seductive technique used by religious organizations to recruit new members, oftentimes with the ultimate goal of fleecing or enslaving them.
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Post by MrNice on May 6, 2009 10:56:51 GMT -5
its not anti intuitive - its plain ridiculous women don't bait guys into bed with the promise of something more even the guys arguing here have admitted that they are always willing to go they are willing to jump in with an attractive woman at the earliest convenience THAT IS A CHOICE - a choice that comes with responsibility yet they want to shift all the responsibility onto the woman
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 6, 2009 17:58:14 GMT -5
its not anti intuitive - its plain ridiculous women don't bait guys into bed with the promise of something more even the guys arguing here have admitted that they are always willing to go they are willing to jump in with an attractive woman at the earliest convenience THAT IS A CHOICE - a choice that comes with responsibility yet they want to shift all the responsibility onto the woman so you don't think a guy can get hung up on a woman and get let down when it turns out she was only using him for sex or manipulating him with sex?
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Post by MrNice on May 6, 2009 20:48:33 GMT -5
manipulating somebody with sex is a completely different issue that happens all the time sure - a woman would use sex to get things, or get things done or whatever - but this is not what we are discussing
of course he can - but that is HIS problem and the woman is not to blame sex is not a contract that implies that the woman is now forever his if he can't handle this sort of thing PERHAPS HE SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX SO READILY but of course we all know that the guys are p. hungry and are always willing to go so its up to the woman to make sure that the guy's feelings are not hurt if he jumps into bed with her, right?
ok, when I hear this from a woman, I can understand but from a guy? and just how do you know she has been using him for sex? because she dumped him? here is a more likely scenario - she liked the guy, gave it a shot, but in the end it didn't work out saying she only used him for sex is just an excuse, an attempt to save face in the face of rejection and for the guy that goes to a bar and sleeps with someone the same night - what the hell does he expect? deep love at first sight?
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Post by nigella on May 12, 2009 12:34:51 GMT -5
No i dont expect a woman to drop her skirt at the first man who buys her a drink or chats to her.
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Post by arizona on May 21, 2009 20:47:51 GMT -5
Hmmmmmm......shy people trashing each other.....shy people who complain about being denigrated are now doing the denigrating.....too heavy for me......I'm outta this thread....
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