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Post by missklew on May 27, 2009 16:29:30 GMT -5
If you want casual sex, then see a hooker or sign up for one of those sex sites.
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Post by MrNice on May 27, 2009 19:46:51 GMT -5
an encounter with a hooker would likely be devoid of emotion they are with you for money
otherwise, no matter how meaningless certain people may call it, sex always involves people going through a process of selecting each other and having some sort of a connection - I want you - you want me
its not a good idea to attach some sort of cosmic importance to it though
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Post by nigella on May 28, 2009 2:49:07 GMT -5
Mr nice what im trying to say is that if your very shy or quiet person,then i cant see how u can be shy especially for a man as a man usually has to approach a woman first.But if the man is very anxious or shy then it becomes difficult the longer it takes. The more shy or anxious he becomes and if he suffers with panic attacks as well even more difficult still.A woman who is shy but very attractive will get chatted up a lot so she will get more confident. Im not saying i want casual sex but im putting a point across that i dont see how a shy person or an introverted person can have sex just like that without paying for it.Because their inhibitions hold them back.
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Post by missklew on May 28, 2009 16:33:50 GMT -5
mr nice, some of the guys on here repeatedly say they want lots of casual hookups with different women.
How is having 20 one night stands any different than paying for a hooker?
As for getting it all the time, the most aggressive males will win out. That is survival of the fitness.
Besides, guys exaggerate so much about how much sex they are really having. Most guys are lucky to have a handful of partners in their lifetime.
Unless you find a good long term partner, 90% of males are going to spend the majority of their time sitting alone wanking.
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Post by MrNice on May 28, 2009 17:55:34 GMT -5
not sure I see the significance of 20 one night stands here I'll just compare one night stand to paying for a hooker to have a one night stand you need to meet another person that you like and that likes you, spend some time together and then have sex as opposed to a hooker that has to do it with just anyone any time
how is is this the same?
what they want is a choice as opposed not being able to do anything
looking for a long term partner is not mutually exclusive with less serious relationships
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Post by nigella on May 29, 2009 4:46:14 GMT -5
I would quite happily live together in sin with one beautiful woman for the rest of my life.
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Post by missklew on May 29, 2009 4:59:57 GMT -5
not sure I see the significance of 20 one night stands here I'll just compare one night stand to paying for a hooker to have a one night stand you need to meet another person that you like and that likes you, spend some time together and then have sex as opposed to a hooker that has to do it with just anyone any time how is is this the same? what they want is a choice as opposed not being able to do anything looking for a long term partner is not mutually exclusive with less serious relationships A one night stand don't you just pick someone whose looks you like and they like yours and do it and most likely never see each other again? With a hooker you can pick one whose looks you like too. What about those adult sites like adult friend finder?
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Post by missklew on May 29, 2009 5:00:36 GMT -5
I would quite happily live together in sin with one beautiful woman for the rest of my life. What about one that isn't so gorgeous? Maybe average to kind of homely?
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Post by nigella on May 29, 2009 5:11:32 GMT -5
Yeah if we clicked and had things in common.
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Post by MrNice on May 29, 2009 8:16:47 GMT -5
look, you are saying yourself that 90% of the guys are wanking at home alone most of the time if it was that easy, wouldn't you think that this wouldn't happen?
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Post by nigella on May 29, 2009 12:30:20 GMT -5
I have known people who have been able to pick up women nearly every week.But their just slags male or female.Thats good if u want a dose of the clap.
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Post by missklew on May 29, 2009 16:58:16 GMT -5
look, you are saying yourself that 90% of the guys are wanking at home alone most of the time if it was that easy, wouldn't you think that this wouldn't happen? That is what I am saying. Some of you have this fantasy idea that everyone but you is out there boinking 10 supermodels a week. The reality is very different. Why do you think the porn industry is geared towards men? Why do you think sex for hire is a male thing mostly?
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Post by missklew on May 29, 2009 17:00:01 GMT -5
I have known people who have been able to pick up women nearly every week.But their just slags male or female.Thats good if u want a dose of the clap. They probably greatly exaggerate their conquests.
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Post by nigella on May 30, 2009 5:12:52 GMT -5
Yeah maybe but they did shag each others girlfreinds so they were up for anything.
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Post by Stranger on May 30, 2009 18:04:16 GMT -5
What ever happened to decency what ever happened to love? Theses days it seems easy for a young man to have 20 sexual partners in a year. I also struggle to see how some people are shy on here if they can have casual sex.I believe my confidence would become that high if i was having sex that easily i wouldnt need to be on here so much. So do you want casual sex or not?
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